Rarely... She's across the trading floor from me (she's an hourly trader and I'm a lowly scheduler)

 

Oh , I guess I should have had a disclaimer in there somewhere.. Just wait it out.. If she is down for it it will happen, sometimes likesomeone else mentioned she just has to feel secure.. Give her that and little by little she will hook you up... But what do I know I am 21..

 

yeah, that's the ******* problem.. I'm 22 and she's 25 or 26.

 

dude, thats nothing! im dating a 32 year old. Ages doesnt matter as long as shes over 18! haha

 

Nah age don't matter, but maybe she is too serious or into her work.. Once you get to talk to her more it may be cool..

 

Yeah..

You know what I think it might be?

I'm always trying to work threesomes with new females I meet..

I think I'm a little overzealous on the whole thing.

 

Yeah you have to ease them into a comfortable zone.. you know they get self concious if they give it up to fast so they have to know you for a while, then once you have had it for a bit, you might try getting the 3some..

 

lol.. grow some ***** and go ask her on a date



NOT A MOVIE! :-D



trust me, it will do you wonders if you just ask her out... and BE CONFIDENT!

If you go up to her and studder on your words and be like "so, um, do you.. i mean, would you umm like to like go somewhere with me or something? umm.. if you dont want to uhh thats ok too." cause if you do you are destine for failure, and you already have enough of that problem

 

can you make eye contact from where she is? if so, do that often, but not in a "I'm gonna track you down and kill you" kind of way



if she walks by you, or you walk by her, just make eye contact, smile genuinely, and say hi, good morning, whatever, in a mellow tone



if you want to subtly engage in conversation, you can turn a greeting into a conversation starter, like "lovely day we're having, isn't it?" or, "have any good ***** lately?"



ok, that last one might not be as good, but the rest are



edit: my tips are for guys with no courage whatsoever

 

I should just go up to her but testicular fortitude is difficult to produce when I'm talking to a professional (In the workplace), when if she's not down, it could bite me in the ***.



I don't want to lose my job, I wonly wanna see 'dem ****