Originally Posted by 75 Repu' date='Jan 27 2003, 11:17 AM

Yeah I hate that mind game ****.. WTF is up with the mixed signals all the time..

Originally Posted by Baldy' date='Jan 27 2003, 08:22 AM

clear to female, obscure to male...that's why proper communication is so important in any relationship...I am a guy, but I'm pretty sure guys are clearer...when we say we don't care, we really don't care...when we're angry, it's usually not to hide heartache, we really are pissed off...it's like sometimes females try to guess what we're really feeling, but it's obvious...with them, you have to work at it to pry stuff out, or end up misreading cues



edit: I am generalizing based on past experiences; females, don't get insulted

Originally Posted by Baldy' date='Jan 27 2003, 08:02 AM

It seems to me that girls like to be asked what's wrong, they usually don't just come out and say it. Of course, everyone does that. Something very personal might be bothering her. If it involves you, or relationships in general, try what I suggest below. If she's never been cold before, I wouldn't think it was like "female problems" or something. It might be a big deal.



If you've known each other for so long, but not became a couple, she must talk to you about guys and stuff, right? Does she talk to you about guys she likes, or that she thinks are cute? Or you could ask her, "any love interests lately?" See what comes up, it might turn out painful, if you like her, but she might also end up saying.."well, I haven't really been out with anyone lately, and there's this guy..." This could possibly be an obvious invitation to dating. My wife and I were best friends, always with each other, hanging out and such. Needless to say, it worked out.

Originally Posted by furiousrex' date='Jan 27 2003, 02:07 PM

Next time your both at a party try walking out without saying good by to her and see what she does/says afterwords.



Another thing i would try is to flirt with other girls but dont make it too obvious, and do not pay too much attention to her. I have found that the more you show the girl you like her, the less attracted she is to you.



If all else fails be an *******, that has worked for every guy that gets the girl I want adn hey i have to admit that it works for me most of the time. Although I hate it, it does work.



Just my .02

Originally Posted by wdwflash' date='Jan 28 2003, 03:57 PM

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Thailand has some of the most wonderful women in the world.(and great beach's) I've been going there for over 20 years and you couldn't give me one of those american women(my wife is Thai.) its also very cheap to live there. I retire in 8 years and I'm headed there for good!

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