What Is Up With These Damn Females?
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From: Tulsa, OK
Ok, well i've known this one girl for about the past year and a half. We talk nightly on aim and see each other at parties every month or two. I consider her a good friend, and i'm not even trying to knock boots though she is a hottie. Well anways, this weekend I went up to a party about 2 hours from where I live to hang out with my nephew and basically this girl. Since we had talked about seeing each other. So I was looking forward to hanging out with her. I think its fair to say we flirt a little bit. So anyways I get up there and things are going pretty good, hanging out, joking, laughing, wrestling, and your normal flirting. Well as the night goes on I feel as though I am getting the cold shoulder, which is a little odd to me, but like i said i'm not trying to hook up with the girl, we're just good friends. So the night ends and everyone is going home, and she doesn't even say goodbye!! So now i'm like wtf thats completely uncalled for, and it makes me feel like ****. Well next day (today), i'm home an on aim and she's back to the normal talking and joking like there wasn't any strange tension last night. She iniated the convo too, so its not like i'm pushing myself on her. What in the hell is this all about, i'm confused?
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From: Houston Texas
It makes sense in a way. She was probably feeling you out. Did you make a major move or just same ol' same ol'? Because maybe she became interrested and wanted to see if it would bother you if she left without saying goodbye. If you went up to her after the fact then its obvious you like her. If you didn't then that means its just friends and I was busy...
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From: transylvania
asked doctor love have u? i find a simple solution to ur dilemma.
dont ignore the problem. it will drive u insane.ask her why she didnt even say good bye and why she wasnt paying any attention to u. possibly she felt u were flirting a little to much and she doesnt like she could just like to be flirty because she likes the attention but has no intention of getting with u. but it could have also just been a misunderstanding. my point is just ask her and straighten it out and let her know that it bothers u
dont ignore the problem. it will drive u insane.ask her why she didnt even say good bye and why she wasnt paying any attention to u. possibly she felt u were flirting a little to much and she doesnt like she could just like to be flirty because she likes the attention but has no intention of getting with u. but it could have also just been a misunderstanding. my point is just ask her and straighten it out and let her know that it bothers u
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From: Tulsa, OK
Well it was just the same old stuff as normal, nothing major, just the normal hanging out. I haven't mentioned it to her yet, as a matter of fact this is the 2nd time she has left without saying goodbye. I don't even know why I care so damn much, guess I kinda like her.
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From: Houston Texas
I don't even know why I care so damn much, guess I kinda like her.
Thats pretty obvious. If you really care about her then take bigtimes advice. You really have nothing to lose. But I bet you $5 that she likes you too!