Originally Posted by teknics' date='Jan 3 2004, 09:57 AM

but for a sample, in the past 3 years an ex-boyfriend of a girl i was with has been committed to the psycho ward twice.



kevin.

Originally Posted by Bio-Weapon' date='Jan 3 2004, 01:24 AM

I moved to college in september, and we've kept it going, despite $300+ phone bills. Its ok tho cause i come home on the weekends.

Originally Posted by g_dripht-alex' date='Jan 3 2004, 03:25 AM

she cheated on me a week into it with a guy that was 22 years old (7 ******* YEARS OLDER) all.

Originally Posted by teknics' date='Jan 3 2004, 10:02 AM

in my town i only get along with a certain group of guys that ive been friends with forever becaus ei have a reputation of a girlfriend taker. Girls like to dump their boyfriends for me and then the guys blame me.

Originally Posted by Srce' date='Jan 3 2004, 03:29 AM

Whew, I'm in a good mood despite the clock showig 2:15 AM so I'm gonna gove you some advice that's going to change your life.





Being a relationship failure is the best thing a <span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>MAN</span>

could EVER wish for. The only thing you have to work on is that sellf-esteem issue.



This isn't the way to tell you to try and work on your self esteem issues but I'm going to do it anyway.



Here it is, ready for it?





WHO ******* CARES?



Get the **** over it dude, don't think about yourself that way, you don't deserve that ****. Nobody does. **** the relationship problems, I myself have NEVER had a girlfriend, a steady one I couldn't even imagine. But, I'm happy as hell, sure **** hits the fan sometimes, it could be socially related (like friend dying) or sexually related (like not getting **** from ANYBODY) but you have to learn to rebound.





For example, I USED TO BE SHY AS HELL. I'd freak at the mere sight of a hot girl. I found out why though, it was because I was afraid of saying something bad or embarassing.



Let me tell you though, the only way to get over it is to not care. Hot chicks are what guys want, and when you see one, you automatically get into the "She's hotter then me so I have to be cool and I might get some."



That's bullshit though, don't think of hot chicks as scoring oppertunities. I never think about sex when I approach a girl, I just think about that moment, and it ****** works.



You just have to try it out, you can't be afraid, that's how self-esteem gets built. It's not a problem, just a roadblock. Walk up to a girl and talk to her, say something stupid on purpose, see what she says. Try it a few times with other girls and experiment, you can't lose. You'll only learn and develope confidence, and eye contact is the worst fear I used to have.



When it gets awkward, say something obvious like, "Hmm, this is getting awkward we should have just skipped this and went straight to bed." LOL



Trust me bro, I screwed up so many times it's not even funny. I flopped and got dropped by chicks that weren't even cute because I did the wrong things.



YOU CAN'T BE AFRAID



Good luck and God speed.

Originally Posted by ColinRX7' date='Jan 3 2004, 01:07 PM

Seriously?