Srce

How did I miss this post? LMAO

g_dripht-alex

well i was 17 (im 18 now...yeah anyways) i was dating this girl that was 15 (my first mistake) and whatever i really liked her and we've had like 3 years of past history together and ish but anyways we ended up going back out after that and she cheated on me a week into it with a guy that was 22 years old (7 ******* YEARS OLDER) whatever i told her the only thing she deserved for her birthday was aids, i think she cryed and i think i laughed. now im sort of in a bind with some other girl shes awesome and stuff we hooked up and had sex on new years and stuff but i dont know if i could ever date this girl and ontop of that i met some other girl the other night that i think i like and i dunno what the hell's going on at all...oh and on top of all that...i fucked a strippper. bahahaha. i dont even care its all a bunch of crap. jager solves it all.

Srce

Whew, I'm in a good mood despite the clock showig 2:15 AM so I'm gonna gove you some advice that's going to change your life.





Being a relationship failure is the best thing a <span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>MAN</span>

could EVER wish for. The only thing you have to work on is that sellf-esteem issue.



This isn't the way to tell you to try and work on your self esteem issues but I'm going to do it anyway.



Here it is, ready for it?





WHO ******* CARES?



Get the **** over it dude, don't think about yourself that way, you don't deserve that ****. Nobody does. **** the relationship problems, I myself have NEVER had a girlfriend, a steady one I couldn't even imagine. But, I'm happy as hell, sure **** hits the fan sometimes, it could be socially related (like friend dying) or sexually related (like not getting **** from ANYBODY) but you have to learn to rebound.





For example, I USED TO BE SHY AS HELL. I'd freak at the mere sight of a hot girl. I found out why though, it was because I was afraid of saying something bad or embarassing.



Let me tell you though, the only way to get over it is to not care. Hot chicks are what guys want, and when you see one, you automatically get into the "She's hotter then me so I have to be cool and I might get some."



That's bullshit though, don't think of hot chicks as scoring oppertunities. I never think about sex when I approach a girl, I just think about that moment, and it ****** works.



You just have to try it out, you can't be afraid, that's how self-esteem gets built. It's not a problem, just a roadblock. Walk up to a girl and talk to her, say something stupid on purpose, see what she says. Try it a few times with other girls and experiment, you can't lose. You'll only learn and develope confidence, and eye contact is the worst fear I used to have.



When it gets awkward, say something obvious like, "Hmm, this is getting awkward we should have just skipped this and went straight to bed." LOL



Trust me bro, I screwed up so many times it's not even funny. I flopped and got dropped by chicks that weren't even cute because I did the wrong things.



YOU CAN'T BE AFRAID



Good luck and God speed.

boost_creep

TRUE DAT Srce TRUE DAT

Fluid Dynamics

SRCE you are right. And I always thought you wanted to ban me.

Girlpowerrx8

I once had a girl after me in high school. I had to let her down slowly and tell her that I wasn't a carpet licker. She was a full on lesbian.

That's my story.

drifter

Thats fucken cruel but funny.



I'm 21 and have a 17yo gf (18 in 3 weeks). Its funny I cos used to always tell my friends i'd never go out with a 17yo or less, cos they are waaaaaaayyy to ditsy and immature.



We been togther for about a month, she told me she loves me after like 2 weeks...arrrgghh!! I was just like.. "thats nice". But she's cool with it. I can't say it unless I really mean it.



Being single is good if your really busy. I have to do some super time management now to squeeze her in with everything else.

defprun

If ****'s still going well with my gf in like 3-4 months, and she decides to go to University in Sudbury (6 hours away) I will be in a position where it would not harm me to follow her. It just changes the way I look for a job after I'm done my schooling, and she can persue her career as she chooses.



It's a bit more effort than looking for a job locally, but why the **** would I want to live in WELLAND for the rest of my life?

Rotarydragon

Hrmmm I don't have a failure story, I dated one woman and fell in love with her. Married and quite happy.



Advice?



Sex is the last thing on your mind and the least important thing in a realtionship until you're married. It has NO bearing on love and how a realtionship works, at least not really. You'll adjust, get over the testosterone. "Oh but how will i now if she iz all dat in bedz?!" It's called practice and paying attention.



Don't be self centered if your serious about a realtionship with the person. There's this stupid myth that when you're married it's a 50/50 mix which is NOT the way it works. It's 100/100 you're either committed or you are not. You'll either put down almost anything you're doing for your spouse or you probably don't belong there. Scary? It's a two way street. You're not always right, neither is your spouse learn to adjust. You wont always get to do what you want to do when you want to do it, get over it neither will your spouse.



Hell if you're off doing what YOU want to do all the time why did you get married?



Don't badmouth eachother, ever. At least not seriously



Anyways there's some tips from someone who is happily married for 7 years and will be until I'm dead. Is she perfect? Nope, far from it. Does she drive me nuts? Sure. Do I love her? Yes so I'm willing to work it all out.



Beat that.

Girlpowerrx8

Well said Rotarydragon. I agree 100%