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02-22-2005, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by inanimate_object' date='Feb 22 2005, 05:25 PM
The worst thing you can do is not go back there tomorrow, otherwise she'll think you're not interested. Why not anyway, you've nothing to lose and if she's into you, chances are you didn't do nearly as badly as you think. Sounds to me as if she is as nervous as you. Just go up and introduce yourself and don't worry at all about how you're coming off - Be yourself.
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02-22-2005, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Seppuku' date='Feb 22 2005, 07:11 PM
Always thinking eh Seppuku?
Originally Posted by Seppuku' date='Feb 22 2005, 08:46 PM
Im being told by other people that it would be bad to go up there to soon and that she'll think im stalking her. Thoughts?
Uhh, no. If you sit and stare at her for 15 mins that would be stalking though. Just walk up, make eye contact, leave the note (utilize a paperweight) and walk away. Don't forget to smile.
02-22-2005, 09:39 PM
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Go Friday. You may even consider just walking past if she is working. Just act like you are shopping. Then come back on Monday and play the moves. This way she thinks that you are actually doing something, just try not to make too much eye contact if you are going to do that.
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02-23-2005, 04:04 AM
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It's not complicated - you both fancy each other, just go up and talk to her. You were unlucky with the phone incident, but I guarantee after about 2 minutes of talking you will wonder what all the fuss was about.
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02-23-2005, 08:09 AM
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Going closer to the weekend is probably the best approach. If she's able to be free, it would more than likely be on a Friday or Saturday so inviting her out for one of those days would be best. I say leave her your name and number and see if she gives you a call. If so, she's interested so go for it. If not, don't give up, not all girls would call back in such a situation.
02-23-2005, 08:25 AM
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Okay, going back to the first post, if she smiled and said "yes" when you asked if you could join her, that's a good sign. If she thought you were a stalker, she would have made an excuse like, "I have to get back to work" or "I have to go home and take care of my sick grandma."
Go and talk to her the next time its convenient for you. Try to pick a time when you know the place won't be too busy. If she's busy, the note idea is good, but don't use a frickin paper weight, just say "excuse me" and hand it to her.
And remember, there is nothing to fear but fear itself. We all have silly memories of being insecure around women. It's a good thing, actually, because when that's gone, you will probably have become a jaded arrogant macho male ***** like me.
Go and talk to her the next time its convenient for you. Try to pick a time when you know the place won't be too busy. If she's busy, the note idea is good, but don't use a frickin paper weight, just say "excuse me" and hand it to her.
And remember, there is nothing to fear but fear itself. We all have silly memories of being insecure around women. It's a good thing, actually, because when that's gone, you will probably have become a jaded arrogant macho male ***** like me.
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