Advice?
01-18-2005, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Seppuku' date='Jan 18 2005, 10:21 AM
You sure? I'm pretty sure that she's giving it to you up da butt.
01-18-2005, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by red_blast' date='Jan 18 2005, 02:38 PM
This is where you look at what you have and weigh the positives and negatives of the "relationship". Then you make a decision: Is it worth it or not?
--Lauren
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01-18-2005, 12:42 PM
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I normally don't say anything to these type of threads because, frankly I have never cared.
For some reason I want to say something here. Listen....
There has been some great advice given to you here. I am 36. I have been married and divorced and I have been in many relationships. I can tell you with all honesty that you are being put through hell for no reason. Trust me when I say there are many women out there just looking for the right guy to be with. There are many woman out there that would give you devout, undivided attention and you would return it in spades.
This girl is playing you and she knows it. Stand up for yourself, be a strong man and stop playing into her games. These are head games she is playing. If a girl truly wants to be with you they will jump through hoops to do so and in turn you will jump through hoops to return the love and affection. Right now all you ahev is a fucked up head for all of this, over one single girl that has apparently decided for herself who she wants to be with. It is her problem that she wants to be with a man who does not care. It is her problem that she is with a guy who will not give her the attention.
She apparently is not in love with you as much as you are with her or she apaprently does not care. Right now she is getting something she needs from you and something she needs from him and she is quite happy. If she wasn't it would be an easy choice.
Now it is time to really give her a choice. Leave her alone, quit hanging out with her, quit being the man to pick up the pieces. Quit being the guy that is always there for her. Give her a reason to want to be with you over him. If it is meant to be, Father or not, it will happen because she will make it happen.
If it does not work out then no big deal. There is another girl around the corner waiting. it sounds bad but it is true. It took me a while of going through crap like that but I have now found an incredible woman that shares in my world as much as I share in hers.
By the way I am usually never this sappy....****, what have you done to me here....
For some reason I want to say something here. Listen....
There has been some great advice given to you here. I am 36. I have been married and divorced and I have been in many relationships. I can tell you with all honesty that you are being put through hell for no reason. Trust me when I say there are many women out there just looking for the right guy to be with. There are many woman out there that would give you devout, undivided attention and you would return it in spades.
This girl is playing you and she knows it. Stand up for yourself, be a strong man and stop playing into her games. These are head games she is playing. If a girl truly wants to be with you they will jump through hoops to do so and in turn you will jump through hoops to return the love and affection. Right now all you ahev is a fucked up head for all of this, over one single girl that has apparently decided for herself who she wants to be with. It is her problem that she wants to be with a man who does not care. It is her problem that she is with a guy who will not give her the attention.
She apparently is not in love with you as much as you are with her or she apaprently does not care. Right now she is getting something she needs from you and something she needs from him and she is quite happy. If she wasn't it would be an easy choice.
Now it is time to really give her a choice. Leave her alone, quit hanging out with her, quit being the man to pick up the pieces. Quit being the guy that is always there for her. Give her a reason to want to be with you over him. If it is meant to be, Father or not, it will happen because she will make it happen.
If it does not work out then no big deal. There is another girl around the corner waiting. it sounds bad but it is true. It took me a while of going through crap like that but I have now found an incredible woman that shares in my world as much as I share in hers.
By the way I am usually never this sappy....****, what have you done to me here....
01-18-2005, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Baldy' date='Jan 18 2005, 10:47 AM
Bah, you want wise words? I'll giive you wise words.
"It don't matter if you win by an inch or a mile, winnings winning."
