It's alright man, I know where you are coming from. It's not a matter of jealousy, its a

more of a, "wow, this is a big important part of your life, and I don't feel like I was included"

Which between two GOOD friends could hurt, then again, you might be the kinda person

that could care less about knowing...just depends on how you rank your friends...do you

put your friends before other things, or after? My friends are a big part of my life, but I'm a

social person...if you aren't then maybe friends don't mean the same to you as they do to

people like us.

 

Well I think you can see from my post where i rank my friends



I guess mad really isnt the word i should use..... cause now that I really think bout how most people are probably takin that word it might be a little more harsh than i really mean...



I think disappointed, shocked, frustrated might be better words to describe it....



Dont get me wrong, I am happy for him and they make a GREAT couple, I was just wondering why i wasnt told.... guess I will find out tomorrow

 

Sorry if that came out the wrong way.. butI wouldn't be mad. Maybe he didn't want you to know yet, and wanted to tell you at a certain time.... and wasn't ready to tell you....

 

maybe that bitch is really buck a$$ nasty and he doesnt want anybody he has to be around to know??? i wouldnt care but it is kinda messed up id be like good job punch him in the face and tell him straght up a pimp aint a pimp without no hoes a hustler aint a hustler with out no dough a thug aint a thug if his gun dont smoke and a player aint a player if his a$$ cant roll,,,na mean?

 

ask him when do you get to prove that u are indeed the best man. lol

just ask him, maybe it did slip his mind. i mean there are a whole lotta things going through his head now.

 

don't worry too much about it, it sounds like a usual ann landers column



even though a person chooses to get married, it's a life changing event, and maybe he just wanted it to be a couple friends hanging out...after you get married, you can still do everything you used to, but it's like people view you differently, especially at a young age



I'm 20, and I'm married.

 

:bigthumg:

 

Well, I am prob gonna talk to him tonight when I go up to work on the FD (it is up at his place.... actually its chillin in the backyard on his basketball court that he doesnt use, LOL).



20 and married... hmmmm I am 20 and COULDNT be married, must say if it is working out for you I am happy for you, but I have known too many people that rushed into things and it didnt last (ie, my friend Candice was married AND divorced by the age of 19).