Would You Care?
Senior Member
Joined: Aug 2003
Posts: 141
From: Cedarville, New Jersey
It also seems shes not the one who told you, so you may actually hurt her MORE by approaching her about it. She may think your pitty'n her and "looking down to her".
Sorry if that makes no sense, i swear i have a point.
Sorry if that makes no sense, i swear i have a point.
Senior Member
Joined: Oct 2001
Posts: 10,906
From: Peoria, AZ
Originally Posted by Turbo II' date='Oct 1 2003, 05:18 PM
it depends how much i cared for her when i was with her. if she was a huge part of my life before than of course cause she wouldve helped me become who i am. and if not, then still yes, cause its someone i know that has cancer
Member
Joined: Jul 2003
Posts: 77
From: Central Iowa
Originally Posted by Rotarydragon' date='Oct 1 2003, 03:03 PM
Wishing ill upon someone no matter what the situation is never a good thing.
God requires that we forgive, but we don't have to forget.
God requires that we forgive, but we don't have to forget.
Personally, in my situation - I will never forgive, and have a much better chance at forgetting than the former. As for Unique's actual situation - a less-personal way of contact such as an email wouldn't be completely out of line if you feel inclined to send your wishes, but it is in no way an obligation for you to send your heart out after having your own played...
Senior Member
Joined: Feb 2003
Posts: 212
From: Iowa Baby....Oh-Yea
Thats a tough one... All I can say is I appreciated all the cards I recieved more than someone calling me up or coming over to my house and getting in my face pimping me about everything, espically when I know that they are just doing it cause they want to make themself feel better. Cards are nice because its one-way communication and dosent lead into anything.
I would never wish this, or any illness on annother person but I do believe in Karma...
I would never wish this, or any illness on annother person but I do believe in Karma...
Thread Starter
Senior Member
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 4,775
From: Ames, IA
I guess a better question would have been "How much would you care/what would you do?" since I don't know of too many people who wouldn't give a ****.
Even at our worst, I wouldn't have wished any physical pain/suffering on her.
Even at our worst, I wouldn't have wished any physical pain/suffering on her.
Senior Member
Joined: Feb 2002
Posts: 1,381
From: Close enough to annoy you.
I don't belive in karma of any sort. Vengence is mine thus says the Lord I will repay.
I don't think I would care any more/less. There again if everyone else abandons her I think I would step in, turn the other cheek as it were.
Again, I'd pray about it.
I don't think I would care any more/less. There again if everyone else abandons her I think I would step in, turn the other cheek as it were.
Again, I'd pray about it.
Senior Member
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 1,337
From: north NJ
Originally Posted by FDRacing' date='Oct 1 2003, 02:16 PM
Im a really bitter person at the moment, and stefanie is the center of it. But if something like that happend to her, id be at her house, i think. I know i would care.