Ok... I've Came To A Conclusion.
02-18-2003, 12:27 AM
#51
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when things feel hopeless and you think you're as low as you've ever been, that means things can only improve. believe me this past year i've lost my girlfriend of a year whom i had every intention of eventually marrying, had 6 charges pressed against me adding up to a potential of 15 years in prison, lost about 90% of my friends, become broke, just blew the trans in my durango completely, prolly getting booted out of my house, met a new girl i thought could be the one...she had a boyfriend.
so i just keep telling myself things will get better, hopefully after court it will all get better
kevin.
so i just keep telling myself things will get better, hopefully after court it will all get better
kevin.
02-18-2003, 02:24 AM
#52
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When you stop looking, someone will find you thats usually how it works for me. Time heals everything though :bigthumg: and when it has, you'll feel a lot better
If someone betrays you once, it is his fault
If he betrays you twice, it is your fault.
If someone betrays you once, it is his fault
If he betrays you twice, it is your fault.
02-18-2003, 02:03 PM
#53
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OK, now for my view.
Christi, Honey . . Don't be so down, on life and yourself!
It's just life, don't let it kill you!!!
Take the experience for what it is, a lesson on what/ what not to do the next time around.
Life is trying to teach you something, you just have to be willing to let it!
People get hurt, it happens everyday. It's just how you choose to deal with it that makes you the person you are, and as long as you love yourself everything that has or will happen to you is only making you the great person you are!
Not everyone is out to hurt you, I think alot of it depends on what you project.
I consider myself pretty lucky like that, I'm a good person and I find that 99% of the people I'm attraced to are as well. Take your time, don't be so worried about having someone to love you! Make sure YOU love you first.
Christi, Honey . . Don't be so down, on life and yourself!
It's just life, don't let it kill you!!!
Take the experience for what it is, a lesson on what/ what not to do the next time around.
Life is trying to teach you something, you just have to be willing to let it!
People get hurt, it happens everyday. It's just how you choose to deal with it that makes you the person you are, and as long as you love yourself everything that has or will happen to you is only making you the great person you are!
Not everyone is out to hurt you, I think alot of it depends on what you project.
I consider myself pretty lucky like that, I'm a good person and I find that 99% of the people I'm attraced to are as well. Take your time, don't be so worried about having someone to love you! Make sure YOU love you first.
02-18-2003, 02:20 PM
#55
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Originally Posted by ExquisiteImports' date='Feb 18 2003, 02:24 AM
If someone betrays you once, it is his fault
If he betrays you twice, it is your fault.
If he betrays you twice, it is your fault.
Gave two dudes a BJ, shame on you.
LMAO! Crankyankers!!
02-18-2003, 09:24 PM
#56
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Originally Posted by christi' date='Feb 17 2003, 05:48 PM
uh wrong.
you just don't know what i'm really feeling nor what i'm really talking about. Most of the guys (I will not call them men, because they surely do not act mature enough to be called men.) do NOT look upon a 'good' relationship or someone they'll love. If you're gonna tell me that women just want sex, and fillful they're needs, then you're just being selfish of your own self. I am not saying women don't do that , beacuse they do,
ugh, nevermind. You won't and probably will never understand.
you just don't know what i'm really feeling nor what i'm really talking about. Most of the guys (I will not call them men, because they surely do not act mature enough to be called men.) do NOT look upon a 'good' relationship or someone they'll love. If you're gonna tell me that women just want sex, and fillful they're needs, then you're just being selfish of your own self. I am not saying women don't do that , beacuse they do,
ugh, nevermind. You won't and probably will never understand.
Ok then, why don't you just take that spotless GXL out and slam some curves with it? Go really fast and find a safe place, then get it to fishtail as you fight off its tendency to spin. That will put a smile on your face. I have been doing that a lot with my integra because my rx7 is gone, dead in pieces in my garage. my mistress is gone and I am so sad now.
02-19-2003, 09:30 AM
#57
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Why would you want me? Nothing special about me, I'm not pretty... **** like that. You know. Guys mostly look for that anyway.
Christi, I've never met you, but decided to spend my first post on this forum in your thread. Your quote reminded me of another quote by a guy named Sir Walter Raleigh (obviously English ) that I find true enough to live by.
Remember, that if thou marry for beauty, thou bindest thyself all thy life for that which perchance will neither last nor please thee one year; and when thou hast it, it will be to thee of no price at all; for the desire dieth when it is attained, and the affection perisheth when it is satisfied.
It sounds to me like you bought into someone else's definition of beauty, when I think you should define the word for yourself. Good luck with this, I hope you don't come away from this with a jaded outlook on men.
P. S. get some sleep.
P. S. S. OK, one more quote
Everything has its beauty but not everyone sees it. - Confucius
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