Ok... I've Came To A Conclusion.
02-16-2003, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted by P'cola FD' date='Feb 16 2003, 01:32 PM
It's not just guys, humans, in general, suck. People are always looking out for themselves, and how they can fulfill their wants and needs. Even when we do things for other people, we are still just doing it for ourselves: i.e. when someone helps a person stranded on the road, they may be doing for the feeling of accomplishment afterward, or they may be doing it because they would want someone to do the same for them in such a situation. People are always going to look after their own best interests at almost all times. Know that, and understand it. When a jerk is feeding you a platefull of bullshit, call him on it. All guys aren't bad, but more are than aren't. Just learn how to read a guy, and think logically about things. Here are some signs of a jerk (or a hoe): If they have a girlfriend/boyfriend, but "really care about you," they could be a player. If you haven't know each other for very long, but he really wants to ****, and doesn't want to wait, then you might be dealing with a douschebag. Someone who really cares about you will actually care about your feelings, your wants, and your needs. They won't just say that they care, they will show that they care. If someone is not willing to make sacrifices for you, then you can do a lot better. Just take your time, I mean really take your time, and the right person will come along, be it a male or a female.
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I just had to vent, I need to vent some more. I haven't been to sleep yet.. It's been (in 30mins) 36 hours (9pm CST) since I've been awake.
02-16-2003, 08:43 PM
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I mean, I know guys in general are not dicks, but recently the ones that I have met, or been friend's with for a while now have been complete ********. Danny and Steve Fooshee can vouch for that in more ways than one. I had to vent. I wasn't done venting and still am not.
one of my good friend's said that he cared so much for me , etc. He bought me flowers on Xmas, and for Valentines Day he bought me a bracelet to "remember" him.... a bracelet from zales .. The Diamond Store. And I am fairly sure all you males know that is a helluva expensive jewelry store... So he says he loves you, but yet he loves someone else, who's also cheating on him. They were suppose to get married in Jan, but didn't and he said it was "all because of me..." (They are getting married next week.....) How can it be because of me if he supposely had "feelings" for me, and told me all this bullshit etc? I feel used in a few ways in that situation, because he said he loved me, yet.. err Maybe you'd have to hear the entire store...oneday i'll type it up and whoever is bored enough they can read it. Ihaven't slept in almost 36 hours, so I don't even know if this makes much since.
I am just really tired of ******' males telling me they care about me just to make me feel better. Have to make up this drama **** to lead me on, and the go off and tell me the truth etc.
Ugh
one of my good friend's said that he cared so much for me , etc. He bought me flowers on Xmas, and for Valentines Day he bought me a bracelet to "remember" him.... a bracelet from zales .. The Diamond Store. And I am fairly sure all you males know that is a helluva expensive jewelry store... So he says he loves you, but yet he loves someone else, who's also cheating on him. They were suppose to get married in Jan, but didn't and he said it was "all because of me..." (They are getting married next week.....) How can it be because of me if he supposely had "feelings" for me, and told me all this bullshit etc? I feel used in a few ways in that situation, because he said he loved me, yet.. err Maybe you'd have to hear the entire store...oneday i'll type it up and whoever is bored enough they can read it. Ihaven't slept in almost 36 hours, so I don't even know if this makes much since.
I am just really tired of ******' males telling me they care about me just to make me feel better. Have to make up this drama **** to lead me on, and the go off and tell me the truth etc.
Ugh
02-16-2003, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted by 75 Repu' date='Feb 16 2003, 08:43 PM
Hey Christi, sorry, to hear that.. But don't give up hope.. Like most have said, just give it time, and you will meet a good guy.
But what I say to everyone...
Why would you want me? Nothing special about me, I'm not pretty... **** like that. You know. Guys mostly look for that anyway.
02-16-2003, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted by christi' date='Feb 16 2003, 06:55 PM
True.
But what I say to everyone...
Why would you want me? Nothing special about me, I'm not pretty... **** like that. You know. Guys mostly look for that anyway.
But what I say to everyone...
Why would you want me? Nothing special about me, I'm not pretty... **** like that. You know. Guys mostly look for that anyway.
But what do I know I'm 21 and the girl I like is not particularly happy with me at the moment..
02-16-2003, 09:07 PM
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girls are the same way, I can't for the life of me find a good girl, I was just in the same situation as you christi, but on a much lower level. And guess what now I'm seeing her again, Im a sucker an a dumbass.
02-16-2003, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted by 75 Repu' date='Feb 16 2003, 09:05 PM
[quote name='christi' date='Feb 16 2003, 06:55 PM'] True.
But what I say to everyone...
Why would you want me? Nothing special about me, I'm not pretty... **** like that. You know. Guys mostly look for that anyway.
But what I say to everyone...
Why would you want me? Nothing special about me, I'm not pretty... **** like that. You know. Guys mostly look for that anyway.
But what do I know I'm 21 and the girl I like is not particularly happy with me at the moment.. [/quote]
do nto let this be a pity party for you. if you live your life too far towards what others expect of you, then you are setting YOURSELF up to fall face first. it does not matter what you look like, yeah we are all delt different cards, but you need to look through that. i am not a pretty dude either. but i do not worry what others think of me too often, because as soon as i did, i was not myself and or doing things that i did not care for....
do not let your subconscious or your suppressed thoughts or worries ruin the life that you have been given. i do not know you, but it seems like you are a cool *** chick. you have a good sense of humor and are pretty open minded......
but, youre gonna do whatcha like now arentchu....