Ok... I've Came To A Conclusion.
#14
Originally Posted by RxHeaven69' date='Feb 16 2003, 10:20 AM
.Do you think that guys & girls can ever really be just good friends?
I mean if there is an attraction there and a lot of flirting going on, is it JUST a friendship and can it really last without one person screwing it all up?
I mean if there is an attraction there and a lot of flirting going on, is it JUST a friendship and can it really last without one person screwing it all up?
I was always a guy that said I could never have a girl as a friend only. I'm just too sexual and I love women too much to be just friends, but like I said that's how I was. Now I'm much older and I understand the gift of having a female " friend ". I only have one , but thats enough. She is like a sister to me and we talk about anything together.I give her lots of advice as well as she does to me. She is very attractive and all of the guys are always saying that I should hit it, but I just don't see her that way. So, the answer is leave it as friends , don't get sexual because it will mess everything up. Then you will lose a close friend.
#18
It's not just guys, humans, in general, suck. People are always looking out for themselves, and how they can fulfill their wants and needs. Even when we do things for other people, we are still just doing it for ourselves: i.e. when someone helps a person stranded on the road, they may be doing for the feeling of accomplishment afterward, or they may be doing it because they would want someone to do the same for them in such a situation. People are always going to look after their own best interests at almost all times. Know that, and understand it. When a jerk is feeding you a platefull of bullshit, call him on it. All guys aren't bad, but more are than aren't. Just learn how to read a guy, and think logically about things. Here are some signs of a jerk (or a hoe): If they have a girlfriend/boyfriend, but "really care about you," they could be a player. If you haven't know each other for very long, but he really wants to ****, and doesn't want to wait, then you might be dealing with a douschebag. Someone who really cares about you will actually care about your feelings, your wants, and your needs. They won't just say that they care, they will show that they care. If someone is not willing to make sacrifices for you, then you can do a lot better. Just take your time, I mean really take your time, and the right person will come along, be it a male or a female.
--Danny (One of the 98% JK)
--Danny (One of the 98% JK)
#19
Originally Posted by Srce94FD' date='Feb 16 2003, 02:31 PM
[quote name='RxHeaven69' date='Feb 16 2003, 12:20 PM'] I too would have to agree that most guys are dicks right now, although I have been reading some of these posts and some of these guys seem really genuine and decent.
Here is a question for you...Do you think that guys & girls can ever really be just good friends?
I mean if there is an attraction there and a lot of flirting going on, is it JUST a friendship and can it really last without one person screwing it all up?
Here is a question for you...Do you think that guys & girls can ever really be just good friends?
I mean if there is an attraction there and a lot of flirting going on, is it JUST a friendship and can it really last without one person screwing it all up?
Neer **** you co-workers too? It will hunt you.