Girl Situations
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Joined: May 2003
Posts: 635
From: Orange County, NY
Again, you guys are approaching sex and it's benefits in a self-seeking manor. Relationships, and sex, is an all giving process. Both partners should be in it to serve the other person, to the best of their ability.
It works best if the other partner has the same mentality: they step in wanting to give as much as they can...not "Get the most for themselves". It's a win-win situation if you play your cards right. I've heard from the best and worst of relationships; I'm beyond the age where a couple in a relationship won't tell me what's REALLY going on, and I've seen/heard of the 40+ year marriages to the 4 month ones.
Rag: You can't directly compare cars to women as far as that test driving thing go's, I was just using a different choice of wording. Yes, I've been warned and told that perhaps my perfectionist attitude is keeping me from the perfect girls I know already, but nobody can tell me who I should be with or why. There'll be more to my soul mate than just meeting qualifications of attraction, vision, personality, etc.
Who knows, you could be my special someone!
It works best if the other partner has the same mentality: they step in wanting to give as much as they can...not "Get the most for themselves". It's a win-win situation if you play your cards right. I've heard from the best and worst of relationships; I'm beyond the age where a couple in a relationship won't tell me what's REALLY going on, and I've seen/heard of the 40+ year marriages to the 4 month ones.
Rag: You can't directly compare cars to women as far as that test driving thing go's, I was just using a different choice of wording. Yes, I've been warned and told that perhaps my perfectionist attitude is keeping me from the perfect girls I know already, but nobody can tell me who I should be with or why. There'll be more to my soul mate than just meeting qualifications of attraction, vision, personality, etc.
Who knows, you could be my special someone!
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Joined: Jul 2002
Posts: 2,467
From: Portland, OR
[quote name='PhoenixDownVII' date='Mar 24 2005, 03:10 PM']Again, you guys are approaching sex and it's benefits in a self-seeking manor. Relationships, and sex, is an all giving process. Both partners should be in it to serve the other person, to the best of their ability.
It works best if the other partner has the same mentality: they step in wanting to give as much as they can...not "Get the most for themselves". It's a win-win situation if you play your cards right. I've heard from the best and worst of relationships; I'm beyond the age where a couple in a relationship won't tell me what's REALLY going on, and I've seen/heard of the 40+ year marriages to the 4 month ones.
Rag: You can't directly compare cars to women as far as that test driving thing go's, I was just using a different choice of wording. Yes, I've been warned and told that perhaps my perfectionist attitude is keeping me from the perfect girls I know already, but nobody can tell me who I should be with or why. There'll be more to my soul mate than just meeting qualifications of attraction, vision, personality, etc.
Who knows, you could be my special someone!
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No, no, not a direct comparison, just an analogy and not specifically regarding sex, a general analogy. And as far as being your special someone, it will be a cold, cold day in hell buddy
It works best if the other partner has the same mentality: they step in wanting to give as much as they can...not "Get the most for themselves". It's a win-win situation if you play your cards right. I've heard from the best and worst of relationships; I'm beyond the age where a couple in a relationship won't tell me what's REALLY going on, and I've seen/heard of the 40+ year marriages to the 4 month ones.
Rag: You can't directly compare cars to women as far as that test driving thing go's, I was just using a different choice of wording. Yes, I've been warned and told that perhaps my perfectionist attitude is keeping me from the perfect girls I know already, but nobody can tell me who I should be with or why. There'll be more to my soul mate than just meeting qualifications of attraction, vision, personality, etc.
Who knows, you could be my special someone!
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No, no, not a direct comparison, just an analogy and not specifically regarding sex, a general analogy. And as far as being your special someone, it will be a cold, cold day in hell buddy
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Joined: Aug 2003
Posts: 570
From: St. Petersburg/Orlando, Fl
I think its kinda fucked up to be having sex with a bunch of different girls. You said it yourself half of them are in love with you and your just gonna break there hearts, i just cant do that to a girl.
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Joined: Jul 2002
Posts: 2,483
From: Fayetteville, Georgia
I've been with this girl I went to HS with for a few months now...she was a different person in high school and has really changed for the better.
She's an art student and respects my interest in cars and World of WarCraft. =)
PhoenixDown raises some very interesting points and I've got to say I agree with his camp. I'm not built to go out and sleep with as many girls as possible because that's not what's MOST important to me...not to say that it's not important, or will be in the future at some point, but it's not now. It will just add drama and unneeded emotional attachment. I'm 19, I have other stuff to worry about besides ruining what could be a lasting relationship...
She's an art student and respects my interest in cars and World of WarCraft. =)
PhoenixDown raises some very interesting points and I've got to say I agree with his camp. I'm not built to go out and sleep with as many girls as possible because that's not what's MOST important to me...not to say that it's not important, or will be in the future at some point, but it's not now. It will just add drama and unneeded emotional attachment. I'm 19, I have other stuff to worry about besides ruining what could be a lasting relationship...
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Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 464
From: Mississippi
Damn, I feel kinda important or something. in a low dirty way.
I didn't intend for this thread to become a good guy vs bad guy deal. I just wanted to have a little fun.
The things I'm actually going to spend my time responding to:
Hiv / Aids / etc...
I get tested often enough. I know I'm at a risk. Its no different than someone who sky dives, or races cars. They know the risk is there, they just think that the pleasure offsets it. I'm the same with getting laid. As of now, I am perfectly clean. I have never shown a single sign of a vd.
The 4/5 girls have herpes thing is bullshit. There is no way in hell its that high, trust me. That was a statistic put out by some organization to try to strike fear into us. I guess it worked on some of you, but not me.
I'm still going with my different strokes for different folks thing. Everyone has something they do for a rush, or as a hobby. Some people race cars, some people BASE jump, some ride dirt bikes. I have sex. If you disagree with me, then thats just too bad. I don't care. I'm not changing for now.
I'm sure that a few years from now, I'll calm down a little and find a girl that is truely compatible with me, and we will settle down a get married, but as of now, I'm gonna keep having as much fun as possible.
I didn't intend for this thread to become a good guy vs bad guy deal. I just wanted to have a little fun.
The things I'm actually going to spend my time responding to:
Hiv / Aids / etc...
I get tested often enough. I know I'm at a risk. Its no different than someone who sky dives, or races cars. They know the risk is there, they just think that the pleasure offsets it. I'm the same with getting laid. As of now, I am perfectly clean. I have never shown a single sign of a vd.
The 4/5 girls have herpes thing is bullshit. There is no way in hell its that high, trust me. That was a statistic put out by some organization to try to strike fear into us. I guess it worked on some of you, but not me.
I'm still going with my different strokes for different folks thing. Everyone has something they do for a rush, or as a hobby. Some people race cars, some people BASE jump, some ride dirt bikes. I have sex. If you disagree with me, then thats just too bad. I don't care. I'm not changing for now.
I'm sure that a few years from now, I'll calm down a little and find a girl that is truely compatible with me, and we will settle down a get married, but as of now, I'm gonna keep having as much fun as possible.
