basically the only remedy i've come up with to this is to not let her know everything about you. Do random things, take up random hobbies that interest both of you, etc... just DONT let her get bored of you or feel in total control of you.



Thats the jist of my remedy theory, i have yet to do any actual documented study on it though, as im not in a long term relationship and anyone that i know that is, is too much of a wuss to threaten the relationship for the sake of science



so its only theory, buts its an educated guess!!

 

yea ive seen what sidewinder mentioned in action. it works pretty good. if youve always got your girlfriends attention and interest and dont just spill everything about you and make it boring then shes not as ready to jump ship.



kevin.

 

yeah but what gets me is you have to put up that front all the time?



gay..



i wouldnt want to find a wife like that.. id rather just be myself.. know what im saying?



of course im talkign about having a long term relationship.. im not talking about stringing someone along for sex..



im trying to differentiate women to two types and its not working... ?

 

yea the girls you have to keep entertained probably arent gonna be your "soul mates" cause ventually there is nothing new, and shell bounce.



kevin.

 

exactly



i swear its getting harder to find girls who think on the same plane as myself..



like i know how to have my fun, im not worried about that, but as for anything with future prospective.. its just starting to look so damn bleak from all these stories and ****

 

do what im in the process of doing.



learn to wait.



it will happen eventually.



ive gone from chasing that girl i told you about, to just having the random convo every now and then, and it smade us stronger slowly.



kevin.

 

What sidewinder said is true. I haven't and don't plan on cheating. But on that same note i've been in a similar situation and when i start losing interest in the relationship is because some other girl has come along and situations that parallel sidewinder's study even if not directly come up slowly. This has happened to me even when the g/f i've had before has been great, its sad but true.

 

the only "girl" youve been with is attached to your right wrist.



kevin.

 

lol. nope.

 

so youre a lefty then?



kevin.