Very Bad News
03-31-2004, 10:12 PM
#11
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That SUCKS. I am very saddened to hear when things like that happen. In fact I was gonna make an anti-suicide post earlier today.A friend of a coworker committing suicide earlier today and it is a terrible thing even if you never met the person. I can only imagine how you feel..
03-31-2004, 10:39 PM
#13
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my deepest condolences
a very close friend of mine passed away 3 days before christmas this year, and i can understand how hard it is to deal with things like these. keep strong, cherish life, and take nothing for granted.
a very close friend of mine passed away 3 days before christmas this year, and i can understand how hard it is to deal with things like these. keep strong, cherish life, and take nothing for granted.
03-31-2004, 11:51 PM
#15
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THanks NP. I know I shouldn't beat myself, that it was his choice. Its always going to be there. the last time he was here he just came by and told me some of what he was thinking...he told me he came close to it. HE told me It scared the **** out of him..I should have know better. I don't know if I delayed what was going to happen.. I still should have done something more than I did. I shouldn't have let it slide what he told me.
04-01-2004, 07:15 AM
#17
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You're right Jim. This happened about 15 years ago when I was a freshman in high school. It probably took me the rest of HS to realize it though. She was already on anti-depressants... in fact I think that's what she used. She took the whole bottle.
04-01-2004, 06:52 PM
#20
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I'm sorry to hear that. Your in my prayers.
I cant say I know how you feel, since I've never lost anyone in that way, But I lost my best friend of 5 years to a tornado (the double wide trailer crushed her after she was pulled out of her window) and I still wonder if there was anything I could have done, I know there isn't, but I cant help but wonder.
I cant say I know how you feel, since I've never lost anyone in that way, But I lost my best friend of 5 years to a tornado (the double wide trailer crushed her after she was pulled out of her window) and I still wonder if there was anything I could have done, I know there isn't, but I cant help but wonder.