My Son
11-22-2003, 10:39 PM
#1
Senior Member
Thread Starter
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Cowgill , Missouri
Posts: 370
My son will be born 11-24-03!! They're finally gonna induce the girlfriend, we gotta be at the hospital by 7:30 pm tomorrow night, FINALLY THE MOMENT HAS ARRIVED!! time to hold on and hope i can be a responsible adult/parent...........
Sean
Sean
11-22-2003, 10:43 PM
#3
Senior Member
Thread Starter
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Cowgill , Missouri
Posts: 370
You and me both....This is gonna be the only child, SOOOO...If i can make it to 40, I AM SET!!!! But really, pretty happy about this, I'm young, and dumb at that, but better to get it done when i am young and not burnt out on life and i can run and play with him and do all the things i didn't do with my dad, and since he'll be an only child, i can buy him all the crap i never had (though he's DEFINITELY working for his first car..) Wish me luck people, I am about to go on a WILD 18 year ride...(it damn well better be 18 anyway..)
Sean
Sean
11-22-2003, 10:46 PM
#4
Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2002
Posts: 5,547
Originally Posted by CrashFactory' date='Nov 22 2003, 11:43 PM
You and me both....This is gonna be the only child, SOOOO...If i can make it to 40, I AM SET!!!! But really, pretty happy about this, I'm young, and dumb at that, but better to get it done when i am young and not burnt out on life and i can run and play with him and do all the things i didn't do with my dad, and since he'll be an only child, i can buy him all the crap i never had (though he's DEFINITELY working for his first car..) Wish me luck people, I am about to go on a WILD 18 year ride...(it damn well better be 18 anyway..)
Sean
Sean
Are you gonna marry her? Are you in love?????????????????????
Sorry for the interogation, but I'm thinking of becoming a father before 25 too.
11-22-2003, 11:22 PM
#7
Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: Jensen Beach, FL / Sylva, NC
Posts: 2,934
Its more like an 18 year project. Its either easy or hard depending on how involved you want to be with your child. Easy is never being there to help out mom and just living your life like you never fathered a child. Hard is helping mom out giving her breaks from the baby and helping to raise it as it gets older. If you choose B be ready to give up a lot of the things you like to do.
11-22-2003, 11:23 PM
#8
Senior Member
Join Date: May 2002
Location: Okinawa, Japan
Posts: 4,928
Me and Fuji weren't planning to have little Alex....he just kind of happened. Now so many things have changed...all for the better. Kids = teh ****. Thank God I got my car finished before he was born 
11-22-2003, 11:57 PM
#9
Senior Member
Thread Starter
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Cowgill , Missouri
Posts: 370
ran out of birth control pills, was scheduled to get them the NEXT day, said what the hell, you been taking them for a year, gotta have some lasting effect, WRONG!, it wasn't totally unplanned as we had discussed MANY times that i wanted to have children young(er), but i meant 25 not 21 almost 22 :P We're engaged (were engaged be4 the pregnancy) been together 3 years, and I will marry her....Not gonna say this is gonna be easy, but the good FAR outweighs the bad, I am gonna be as involved as i can and still support them and keep them comfortable (we've lived together for almost 2 years), and when he gets older I think i am gonna switch trades (working 6-7 days a week does not give me a lot of time to be a father), i have a little background in computers and where i work now will pay for most of my collefe (at a community college) so i am gonna get educated and go from there...life is good! (just wish i coulda got MY FD or TII be4, but o well, i will get one, maybe that'll be his first car )
sorry so long :P
Sean
sorry so long :P
Sean
11-23-2003, 12:22 AM
#10
Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2002
Posts: 5,547
Originally Posted by CrashFactory' date='Nov 23 2003, 12:57 AM
ran out of birth control pills, was scheduled to get them the NEXT day, said what the hell, you been taking them for a year, gotta have some lasting effect, WRONG!, it wasn't totally unplanned as we had discussed MANY times that i wanted to have children young(er), but i meant 25 not 21 almost 22 :P We're engaged (were engaged be4 the pregnancy) been together 3 years, and I will marry her....Not gonna say this is gonna be easy, but the good FAR outweighs the bad, I am gonna be as involved as i can and still support them and keep them comfortable (we've lived together for almost 2 years), and when he gets older I think i am gonna switch trades (working 6-7 days a week does not give me a lot of time to be a father), i have a little background in computers and where i work now will pay for most of my collefe (at a community college) so i am gonna get educated and go from there...life is good! (just wish i coulda got MY FD or TII be4, but o well, i will get one, maybe that'll be his first car )
sorry so long :P
Sean
sorry so long :P
Sean