It's 7am I'm Pissed Off.
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Originally Posted by Pyrrian' date='Feb 2 2004, 11:15 AM
Someone once told me there are plenty of fish in the sea. Now, whenever I have a problem like this I go fishing. Unfortunately, I usually just go to a lake and not a sea. Oh well.
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Originally Posted by defprun' date='Feb 2 2004, 01:09 PM
She really doesnt want me to just drop her out of my life...thats why I'm not taking the party as a snooty attitude.
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Originally Posted by twstdmtl' date='Feb 2 2004, 11:18 AM
Even though I have been out of highschool since uhm 1996... I dated the same girl for almost the whole time. We held it together for a few years that she was in college and when I was in the Navy. We recently got back together and put I nice cherry on top of a ten year scenario. If this girl makes you feel wonderful and you love her then I say RELAX. I say this cause I like you and cause I have been there, so don't take this the wrong way. Trice is right, you may need to ease off and get a fresh perspective. I think of some of my roughest times with my highschool sweety and they were always when I was pressuring her or the situation or not backing off when she/we needed it. I am not saying that is what you are doing but just ease back a little. Get some time to think. People make bad decisions soemtimes when they feel their back is against a wall. Have fun in Jersey, live your life, and be yourself. It is you that she loves.
We kindof made a pact. We'd be single for a while, break it up a bit, and if by like valentines day we were still lonely and **** that we would get back together. It would also give her mom a time to ******* CHILLAX a bit.
I gave her that option before i stopped talking to her this morning. I know she needs space BUT I dont want to dump her forever.
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Originally Posted by UniqueTII' date='Feb 2 2004, 11:26 AM
I never said she did, but apparently her decisions aren't her own.
Her not saying something does NOT mean that shes being a bitch.
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Originally Posted by defprun' date='Feb 2 2004, 01:30 PM
She's shy, thats the problem and so am I.
Her not saying something does NOT mean that shes being a bitch.
Her not saying something does NOT mean that shes being a bitch.
Here's what I'm saying:
She can't date you because mommy says no. That means don't hang out with her and make things worse. Thank you.
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Go to the guy that wants to bang your GF and take a **** in his mouth. Then douse him in gasoline and light him on fire. See if he messes with her after that.
Then, it's just a matter of waiting until her mom lets up the noose a little on your girl, she'll come right back to ya.
Or, you could just understand that if she's really into you, then she's yours, no matter what. So sit back, relax, and let herfind her way back to ya. If she's not really yours, then there's NOTHING you can do about it, and you're better off trying to get some consolation sex from a new female..
Then, it's just a matter of waiting until her mom lets up the noose a little on your girl, she'll come right back to ya.
Or, you could just understand that if she's really into you, then she's yours, no matter what. So sit back, relax, and let herfind her way back to ya. If she's not really yours, then there's NOTHING you can do about it, and you're better off trying to get some consolation sex from a new female..
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Originally Posted by twstdmtl' date='Feb 2 2004, 11:18 AM
Even though I have been out of highschool since uhm 1996... I dated the same girl for almost the whole time. We held it together for a few years that she was in college and when I was in the Navy. We recently got back together and put I nice cherry on top of a ten year scenario. If this girl makes you feel wonderful and you love her then I say RELAX. I say this cause I like you and cause I have been there, so don't take this the wrong way. Trice is right, you may need to ease off and get a fresh perspective. I think of some of my roughest times with my highschool sweety and they were always when I was pressuring her or the situation or not backing off when she/we needed it. I am not saying that is what you are doing but just ease back a little. Get some time to think. People make bad decisions soemtimes when they feel their back is against a wall. Have fun in Jersey, live your life, and be yourself. If it is you that she loves then take care of YOU.
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Originally Posted by defprun' date='Feb 2 2004, 10:56 AM
I'd look at her, and she look at me and we'd both look away kindof thing...really uncomfortable.
Why don't you stay the F away from her so you won't be uncomfortable? Why don't you go work on your 12A or something and take your mind off her? Then you will see that all you could ever have been is her cuddle bitch. Go ahead, keep hoping that she really does care . . because she probably does in her own fucked up way, but you will probably never be happy with her.
When things get unbearable with you and her (if you are lucky enough to have that happen) you will walk away and never look back. Then you will find a much better woman because you won't care about women at all. Women are backwards; women like men who don't like them. When you realize that relationships suck, you will get the right attitude toward females and they will check you out hardcore at parties when you don't ogle over them.
