g_dripht-alex

girls are the root of all that is wrong/evil in the world today. dont get me wrong im not gay. they're brains ruin them.

defprun

I love women

g_dripht-alex

my exgirlfriend ruined it for me, i cant look at another girl without saying to myself "damn shes probably lieing to me right now" i suck, dont listen to me.

defprun

ok..



crap that bothers me is that she is having a huge problem with my friends as well...they all are telling me to dump her...but i love her, and when we're together we are awesome!



So theres this mentality in her head right now that is telling her that she is not good enough for me, that my friends want to set me up so she just wants to step out of the way.



And its bullshit!!! If she doesnt love me anymore, i could let it go easier, but she still loves me and has mentioned that there might be a possibility of us getting back together when her mom settles the **** down.

g_dripht-alex

she really loves you...i know this because she ignores you at partys and doesnt make eye contact. (sarcasm) that was crap.

defprun

I'd look at her, and she look at me and we'd both look away kindof thing...really uncomfortable. I just wanted to go over and hug her but i couldnt. She probably wanted to do the same...it was such a horrible feeling and we both felt it.

UniqueTII

If there's no way you can be with that girl right now, then avoid her completely. There's no sense in going through all of that **** every time you see her if it's not going to get you anywhere.

defprun

She really doesnt want me to just drop her out of my life...thats why I'm not taking the party as a snooty attitude.

Pyrrian

Someone once told me there are plenty of fish in the sea. Now, whenever I have a problem like this I go fishing. Unfortunately, I usually just go to a lake and not a sea. Oh well.

twstdmtl

Even though I have been out of highschool since uhm 1996... I dated the same girl for almost the whole time. We held it together for a few years that she was in college and when I was in the Navy. We recently got back together and put I nice cherry on top of a ten year scenario. If this girl makes you feel wonderful and you love her then I say RELAX. I say this cause I like you and cause I have been there, so don't take this the wrong way. Trice is right, you may need to ease off and get a fresh perspective. I think of some of my roughest times with my highschool sweety and they were always when I was pressuring her or the situation or not backing off when she/we needed it. I am not saying that is what you are doing but just ease back a little. Get some time to think. People make bad decisions soemtimes when they feel their back is against a wall. Have fun in Jersey, live your life, and be yourself. If it is you that she loves then take care of YOU.