Itailian Dinner for Christmas
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Italian Man brings date home on Christmas Eve
I thought it would be a nice idea to bring a date to my parents' house
on Christmas Eve. I thought it would be interesting for a non-Italian
girl to see how an Italian family spends the holidays. I thought my mother and
my date would hit it off like partridges and pear trees.....I was wrong!
I had only known Karen for three weeks when I extended the
invitation. "I know these family things can be a little weird," I told her, "but my
folks are great, and we always have a lot of fun on Christmas Eve." "Sounds
fine to me," Karen said. I told my mother I'd be bringing Karen with me.
"She's a very nice girl and she's really looking forward to meeting all of
you."
"Sounds fine to me," my mother said. And that was that. Two
telephone calls. Two sounds-fine-to-me. What more could I want?
I should point out, I suppose, that in Italian households, Christmas
Eve is the social event of the season -- an Italian woman's reason for
living. She cleans. She cooks. She bakes. She orchestrates every minute of the
entire evening. Christmas Eve is what Italian women live for. I should also
point out, I suppose, that when it comes to the kind of women that make
Italian men go nuts, Karen is it. She doesn't clean. She doesn't cook. She
doesn't bake. And she has the largest breasts I have ever seen on a human
being. I brought her anyway.
7 p.m. -- we arrive. Karen and I walk in and putter around for half
an hour waiting for the other guests to show up. During that half hour,
my mother grills Karen like cheeseburger on the barbecue determines that
Karen does not clean, cook, or bake. My father is equally observant. He
pulls me into the living room and notes, "She has the largest breasts I have
ever seen on a human being."
7:30 p.m. - Others arrive. Zio Giovanni walks in with my Zia Maria,
assorted kids, assorted gifts. We sit around the dining room table
for antipasto, a symmetrically composed platter of lettuce, roasted
peppers, black olives, anchovies and cheese....no meat of course. When I offer
to make Karen's plate she says, "No Thank you." She points to the
anchovies with a look of disgust.... "You don't like anchovies?" I ask. "I
don't like fish, Karen announces to one and all as 67 other varieties of
seafood are baking, broiling and simmering in the next room.
My mother makes the sign of the cross. Things are getting
uncomfortable.
Zia Maria asks Karen what her family eats on Christmas Eve. Karen
says, "Knockwurst."
My father, who is still staring in a daze, at Karen's chest,
temporarily snaps out of it to murmur, "Knockers?" My mother kicks him so hard he gets a blood clot. None of this is turning out the way I'd hoped.
8:00 p.m. - Second course. The spaghetti and crab sauce is on the way
to the table. Karen declines the crab sauce and says she'll make her own
with butter and ketchup. My mother asks me to join her in the kitchen. I
take my "Merry Christmas" napkin from my lap, place it on the "Merry
Christmas" tablecloth and walk into the kitchen.
"I don't want to start any trouble," my mother says calmly, clutching
a bottle of ketchup in her hands. "But if she pours this on my pasta,
I'm going to throw acid in her face." "Come on," I tell her. "It's
Christmas.
Let her eat what she wants." My mother considers the situation, then
nods.
As I turn to walk back into the dining room, she grabs my shoulder.
"Tell me the truth," she says, "are you serious with this tramp?"
"She's not a tramp," I reply. "And I've only known her for three
weeks."
"Well, it's your life," she tells me, "but if you marry her, she'll
poison you."
8:30 p.m. - More fish. My stomach is knotted like one of those
macramé plant hangers that are always three times larger than the plants they
hold.
All the women get up to clear away the spaghetti dishes, except for
Karen, who, instead, lights cigarette. "Why don't you give them a little
hand?" I politely suggest. Karen makes a face and walks into the kitchen
carrying three forks. "Dear, you don't have to do that," my mother tells her,
smiling painfully. "Oh, okay," Karen says, putting the forks on the
sink.
As she reenters the dining room, a wine glass flies over her head, and
smashes against the wall. From the kitchen, my mother says, "Whoops."
More fish comes out. After some goading, Karen tries a piece of
scungilli, which she describes as "slimy, like worms." My mother winces, bites
her hand and pounds her chest like one of those old women you always see
in the sixth row of a funeral home.
Zia Maria does the same. Karen, believing that this is something that
all Italian women do on Christmas Eve, bites her hand and pounds her
chest. My Zio Giovanni doesn't know what to make of it. My father's dentures
fall out and chew a six-inch gash in the tablecloth.
10:00 p.m. - Coffee, dessert. Espresso all around. A little anisette.
A curl of lemon peel. When Karen asks for milk, my mother finally slaps
her in the face with a cannoli. I guess it had to happen sooner or later.
Karen, believing that this is something that all Italian women do on
Christmas Eve, picks up a cannoli and slaps my mother with it.
"This is fun," Karen says. Time passes and believe it or not,
everyone is laughing and smiling and filled with good cheer -- even my mother,
who grabs me by the shoulder, laughs and says, "Get this bych out of my
house."
Sounds fine to me.
THE END
I thought it would be a nice idea to bring a date to my parents' house
on Christmas Eve. I thought it would be interesting for a non-Italian
girl to see how an Italian family spends the holidays. I thought my mother and
my date would hit it off like partridges and pear trees.....I was wrong!
I had only known Karen for three weeks when I extended the
invitation. "I know these family things can be a little weird," I told her, "but my
folks are great, and we always have a lot of fun on Christmas Eve." "Sounds
fine to me," Karen said. I told my mother I'd be bringing Karen with me.
"She's a very nice girl and she's really looking forward to meeting all of
you."
"Sounds fine to me," my mother said. And that was that. Two
telephone calls. Two sounds-fine-to-me. What more could I want?
I should point out, I suppose, that in Italian households, Christmas
Eve is the social event of the season -- an Italian woman's reason for
living. She cleans. She cooks. She bakes. She orchestrates every minute of the
entire evening. Christmas Eve is what Italian women live for. I should also
point out, I suppose, that when it comes to the kind of women that make
Italian men go nuts, Karen is it. She doesn't clean. She doesn't cook. She
doesn't bake. And she has the largest breasts I have ever seen on a human
being. I brought her anyway.
7 p.m. -- we arrive. Karen and I walk in and putter around for half
an hour waiting for the other guests to show up. During that half hour,
my mother grills Karen like cheeseburger on the barbecue determines that
Karen does not clean, cook, or bake. My father is equally observant. He
pulls me into the living room and notes, "She has the largest breasts I have
ever seen on a human being."
7:30 p.m. - Others arrive. Zio Giovanni walks in with my Zia Maria,
assorted kids, assorted gifts. We sit around the dining room table
for antipasto, a symmetrically composed platter of lettuce, roasted
peppers, black olives, anchovies and cheese....no meat of course. When I offer
to make Karen's plate she says, "No Thank you." She points to the
anchovies with a look of disgust.... "You don't like anchovies?" I ask. "I
don't like fish, Karen announces to one and all as 67 other varieties of
seafood are baking, broiling and simmering in the next room.
My mother makes the sign of the cross. Things are getting
uncomfortable.
Zia Maria asks Karen what her family eats on Christmas Eve. Karen
says, "Knockwurst."
My father, who is still staring in a daze, at Karen's chest,
temporarily snaps out of it to murmur, "Knockers?" My mother kicks him so hard he gets a blood clot. None of this is turning out the way I'd hoped.
8:00 p.m. - Second course. The spaghetti and crab sauce is on the way
to the table. Karen declines the crab sauce and says she'll make her own
with butter and ketchup. My mother asks me to join her in the kitchen. I
take my "Merry Christmas" napkin from my lap, place it on the "Merry
Christmas" tablecloth and walk into the kitchen.
"I don't want to start any trouble," my mother says calmly, clutching
a bottle of ketchup in her hands. "But if she pours this on my pasta,
I'm going to throw acid in her face." "Come on," I tell her. "It's
Christmas.
Let her eat what she wants." My mother considers the situation, then
nods.
As I turn to walk back into the dining room, she grabs my shoulder.
"Tell me the truth," she says, "are you serious with this tramp?"
"She's not a tramp," I reply. "And I've only known her for three
weeks."
"Well, it's your life," she tells me, "but if you marry her, she'll
poison you."
8:30 p.m. - More fish. My stomach is knotted like one of those
macramé plant hangers that are always three times larger than the plants they
hold.
All the women get up to clear away the spaghetti dishes, except for
Karen, who, instead, lights cigarette. "Why don't you give them a little
hand?" I politely suggest. Karen makes a face and walks into the kitchen
carrying three forks. "Dear, you don't have to do that," my mother tells her,
smiling painfully. "Oh, okay," Karen says, putting the forks on the
sink.
As she reenters the dining room, a wine glass flies over her head, and
smashes against the wall. From the kitchen, my mother says, "Whoops."
More fish comes out. After some goading, Karen tries a piece of
scungilli, which she describes as "slimy, like worms." My mother winces, bites
her hand and pounds her chest like one of those old women you always see
in the sixth row of a funeral home.
Zia Maria does the same. Karen, believing that this is something that
all Italian women do on Christmas Eve, bites her hand and pounds her
chest. My Zio Giovanni doesn't know what to make of it. My father's dentures
fall out and chew a six-inch gash in the tablecloth.
10:00 p.m. - Coffee, dessert. Espresso all around. A little anisette.
A curl of lemon peel. When Karen asks for milk, my mother finally slaps
her in the face with a cannoli. I guess it had to happen sooner or later.
Karen, believing that this is something that all Italian women do on
Christmas Eve, picks up a cannoli and slaps my mother with it.
"This is fun," Karen says. Time passes and believe it or not,
everyone is laughing and smiling and filled with good cheer -- even my mother,
who grabs me by the shoulder, laughs and says, "Get this bych out of my
house."
Sounds fine to me.
THE END
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