ok so today my girlfriend told me shes going to south padre with some friends,and all of them but one back out and he happens to be a guy whos 10 years older then her...i got invited along but cant go....im thinking about a future with this girl and this is her last chance with me ever and weve been in love for years....im extremely uncomftorable with this situation...what do you guys think i should do...keeping in mind that shes a straight edge christian girl and hes a baptist lol

let her know how you feel, and let her know that you want your relationship with her to go somewhere, and that you think you two will have a great future. then tell her that you will wait for her, and say that you hope she respects your feelings.



assuming she's good-natured, and not a horny slut, and if she feels the same way about you, nothing bad should happen. she'll probably be glad to come back to you.



but be sure to stay real cool about the trip situation. you can say you're uncomfortable with it, but tell her it's only because you care so much about her, and you don't want anything bad to happen.

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concured

I don't know where I get all this advice from. I'm not too experienced in many relationships, just one good relationship. But you can learn a lot from watching where others' relationships fail.

I was inclined not to post to this thread because I don't know you, your girlfriend or this other guy at all but you have asked for advice so here it goes.



I agree with most of what Baldy has said. It is a good way to handle the situation. I would, however, not let the fact that they are religious people factor into this at all. And the following sentence is why I was not going to chime in. I have seen some of the most devout, religious people cheat on their spouses. My best friend was divorced because of this. I wouldn't let that factor into the equation at all.



I would however do what Baldy has said and make it very known to her how you feel and you may want to let her know that you are uncomfortable with the situation but you trust her to do the right thing.



Things should work out.

thanks guys you rock,im going to tell her how i feel tonight,ill post about what happens...thanks guys...

Be careful!

One wrong phrase is gonna push her away from you. Guess who's gonna be right there for her to vent/lean on?

Tap that **** one more time and start praying she's keeps her straight Christianity.

rootor has a point though....i do love her and completely trust her so im going to tell her how i feel about it...

Wuss.



















































JK https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif

*kicks srce in the gonads* call me a wuss wil you?! dont make me break out the cupcakes of doom and cute fluffy animals of destruction and despair!

No please don't, LOL https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif That's not fair. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...DIR#>/ohmy.png https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif

huh?

good luck man a good grl is had to find



i just found mine like a few month ago i hope it works out for you i know how it is 2 look for the one but if it dont you have an fd the next one will come quikly j/k https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif

well man as of a few minutes ago its over,shes been my best friend for a few years and she was always telling me,"we should get marrried" and "i love you" and ive always given her a chance whn i shouldnt have,ive learned something today and its verry true,women are fickle,its just a shame i was hoping this one would end up with mairage...oh wel...the good news is that im singla and i can go pimp again...and even though i dont have an fd i can get chicks verry easily anyways lol....well guys,wish me luck on my freedom and pimp across america tour lol https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683664.gif

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bwahaha i dont really care about it anymore dude....i get over things like love really fast...and besides ive been getting calls and offers for dates most of the day..... https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/boink.gif gonna take advantage of my rugged good looks haha....or i could be like lee and go to a party with 13 year old backstreet boys fans and become a pedophile... https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683785.gif

you mean!

That's the spirit. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif Good luck man, I wish you nothing but the easiest. LOL

Man this topic sure was confusing. I'm glad it worked out, or didn't or whatever the case was.

bwahaha i dont liem my women easy dude...i like a challenge lol...anways thanks for helping out guys....i would promise to donate to nopistons.com now but due to my car im BROKE!

umm soo its just over liek that??

well shane,yes it is,i get over things like women easily even though i was in live...she said it herself tht ive treated her better then any guy ever has and cared more about her thn anyone....and shes lost that...no one will ever tret her as good as i did and thats her loss...so be it...i can always do better

*******, that was no backstreet boys concert.



And im not a pedophile, im only 14 https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/blink.png



Anyways have fun pimpin it up. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683329.gif

so then i guess she wanted to end it?

actually shane,i did i had to revert to that scripture about being unequally yolked in a relationship,her morals arent where mine are and becuase of that i didnt want to be with her,ive felt this coming on for the past week

So? She was going on a trip. . . you talked to her about it. . . now she's your Ex??

Wow!! It's amazing what a few hours can do!

Well, I hope your as ok with it as you sound!

Better luck next time!

P.S. Teknics! Love the heart!!

yeah im ok with it,shes not my girlfriend anymore so if she runs off with some guy why should i care?! she will probably run off with him turn into a slut and have his kid and he will leave her....and that wouldnt suprise me...but hes still to old for her shes 17 and he's 26....can you say pedophine and jail time?

welll give her a good bang an send her on her way....lol..

Well whoop dee ******* doo

stupid newbs....you know nothing!

that is just scary... the newbie pic https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683785.gif

vosko is the oldest newb.....see that post count.....yeah......im completely wrong.....

oh well,lets make an update of my situation now.....i got me a new girlfriend

fast mover, you're the ******* man in my book

what the hell happened? you told her how you feel and she dumped you?????????



Anthony

:( Sorry to hear that she dump you over something like that....

actually it was an equal agreement on not dating,i told her i wanted my promise ring back and all hell broke loose and now her friends are leaving me retarded messages on my online diary at xanga....im like,look you guys i dont need to keep a relationship with a girl who is incapable of keeping one... she has immature friends....i just want to wash my hands from this situation and move on,im young,im 18 i dont need this kind of stress so screw it,i should be allowed to date and move on

on a different topic completely, me and fcrotornut are such pimps https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR



kevin.

I'm between a pimp and a hard place.







(people whove seen friday after next understand)

haha im proud kevin.....im young i need to have fun yo......i date mad quick yo....lol https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683664.gif



i think joe flo and i are somehow in the same boat