sidewinderx7

lol... trust me, women are not worth the effort alot of guys put into it. Same goes for alot of women out there, dont put too much effort into it. I have been kicked around so much when im in a serious relationship. I stick to dating now. After i got engaged and the girl cheated on me 1 months before our wedding with an ex friend of mine, then 2 months after that they are married and they thought it would be funny if they called the cops and said i hit her, i just have no respect for most 'girls' now. I have spent 1 night in jail, and endless hours in court (still fighting it), just because she said i hit her ... WHICH IS TOTALLY FALSE!! If you knew me in person you would realize im not a physical person, and i avoid conflict especially with girls. So now im left with a broken heart, a bitter taste for females, and a loss of LOTS of money. All for what you ask? The best 2 years of my life, and knowing love is actually there, and if i can love someone like that, that much, then i will REALLY love the person i am with for the rest of my life.



So i stick to dating for now... its cheaper and not as bad when you stop talking to them.

christi

Dude, that sucks

sidewinderx7

very much. I loved that girl so much, nothing else mattered at the time and i planned my whole life to be with her. I changed my dreams to match with her dreams. Granted im only 19 and now im trying to do all the things i want to do, since she followed her dreams and got married (out of spite, i think thats why shes mad at me, because i dont care she married that guy). So i figure the right girl is out there, and she will find me Untill then, im just gonna keep doing what i love to do and that way i figure the girls i meet will atleast have something in common with me since i meet them doing things i like.



oh, and im going to stop hooking up with 18-19 year olds, they are all the same. Stupid, emotionally drivin, and self-centered and usually stuck in a high school mentallity. Trust me, they are ALL the same, if you want to argue that point let me know, cause i'll argue it with you! So anyone know any good looking 22+ year olds with a good personallity, funny, and can hold a conversation more interesting than "you know what 'so-n-so' said today?!?" ....



*tries to use nopistons as a dating service*



besides, i was driving around with iluv88 last night and i was in my car, and him and his gf were in the other car. And i just realized, i need a girl to ride with me

christi

I take offense of that remark. I am not like normal high schoolers whom act so preppy around their "preppy" friends.



I'm 18.... turning 19 oct 29

The Blue Bomber

except you should go older try 30+ and once you get to 50 and older all the want to do is screw and hey no teeth...(eewww)



i wouldn't not date (or else you'll end up like me) but just remeber this:

"it's never too late to say go **** yourself." quoted from my friend dan's mom when she divorced her ******* husband of 21 years



i bet christi is one of those daria chicks

sidewinderx7

I have met very very few girls that are in that age range that are not stuck in the high school mentallity (not just the whole preppy thing, but how highschool is like another world, with its own laws, hiarchy, groups, etc.). And even after that, stupid common 'tricks' always work on them. Because they are so self conscious, it only takes a few 'right words' and they basicly open themselves up to you. I havent met any girls who will admit this, yet its common scence on the dating and pick-up scene with guys. And it has never proven me wrong. Even on a couple girls, i told them exactly how it works, and they all told me the same thing, "im different, that wouldnt work on me." I slept with all of them within 3 months of telling them exaclty HOW i was going to do it. Its a matter of saying the right things at the right time to build confidence when needed and breaking them down when needed. That builds a stong foundation for further action on them. Its just too easy... Thats why with older women, they are more confident in themselves, and since they've been around longer, they are aware of the tricks guys use, and they have tricks of there own that im not totally aware of, which is a VERY nice change. And they are easier to talk to. But you may be different personallity wise, yet instinctivly you are the same as every other girl as i am with men. Once you understand how to manipulate things at that level, its almost too easy with girls who are unaware of these levels.

treceb

true. its just like the "Tao of Steve". cool movie and its exactly what bomber said.

1Revvin7

my dad always says this, if they didn't have a beaver on the front they'd have a bounty on their back.



oh ya, im 18, way too young. And last night i told her we couldn't be friends anymore. She still wanted to be.

ChainSawOnSteroids

well, i am going to turn 21 on october 21st,

i a married for 2 years and have a 2 month old baby(baby way after marriage) problems??? hell yea, but its all good for now (i think)

SpecialT

Sush! You know you love us!

We're not all bad! You just have to find the right girl! Don't dispare. . .she's out there somewhere!!