I am curious to hear stories from you guys (about relationships with women).



Did you ever **** up something good chasing something you thought was there? What's all your failure stories? I know you guys got 'em. Something buried deep inside. Let's hear it. What's some of your all time biggest mistakes?

A mentioned a girls mustache back in HS. Yeah she quit seeing me because of that........ https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683358.gif Thats about the dumbest thing I have ever done in my entire life..

I told this girl i thought she was hot, and then we started talking for a while. I heard she was seeing 3 or 4 other guys at the time, so i thought she was just playing me. So i went and told another girl i thought she was hot in almost the exact same way i told the first one. 2nd one i found out i didnt like, and the 1st one turned out to be an amazing girl. She thought the way i told her was so cute and special, then she found out i said it to another girl. She freaked. Luckily it worked out ok, we've been dating for almost 9 months. I still feel like an ******* for doing it though. Just goes to show you, you shouldnt listen to rumors and junk https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...R#>/unsure.png

It's good you two are together though.



I have made a point not to listen to rumors. It gets alot easier later in life. You just don't hear any. LOL.

i dont know what im going to do with my girl when i go off to college this summer i think she thinks we are still going to go out i dont know how im going to break it to her

This is something I see all the time and I have never understood.



Am I not seeing something I should be?



I always think if you know things are going to end at some point, or you know things will change, why bother continuing with any charade? Why not just come right out and say it.



Sorry that's just something that's always been on my mind. I don't look a things the way everyone does.

I moved to college in september, and we've kept it going, despite $300+ phone bills. Its ok tho cause i come home on the weekends.

I was going out with this girl who I didn't like but she wanted to have sex with me bad, and wasn't all that bad looking and I was a virgin, so I couldn't think straight at the time, I just wanted to score, and the chick I really wanted was available. She sent me this expilcit love letter when I was in the seventh grade and I never realized that it was from her; I was also not quite ready to have some fine babe rock my world at the age of 11. It must be true that girls sexually mature before guys because I wasn't ready to read what she wrote.



But yeah, I hate thinking about how I let her get away. Yep, life sucked as an adolescent. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif

Should've hit it inthebutt.

I would have a ton of stories from adolescence. LOL.



You must have something more current, though. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...DIR#>/wink.png

No I have low self esteem and am a relationship failure.

Woo join teh club!



:o

Forgive me for the bold statement, but you can't look at yourself that way. It won't help anything. Perhaps I have adopted too much of an optimistic view for myself. That's probably what got me where I am. Way to go me. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...>/rolleyes.gif

I've been married 3 times....nuff said.

last gf was quite some time ago, and we went out for less than a week...she ended it.

Story time that's what this is all about

DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OK whoever posted that second post about saying their gf had a mustache eeewwww i wouldnt be dating a chick wit a mustache did she have any other surprises??? lol https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/boink.gif

And then i fucked up, i took the hit that i was giving then i fucked again and i fucked again and said.

Last winter I met this girl and we celebrated New Years together, things seemed to go along amazingly. I even posted about her here. Then all ofa sudden her ex-boyfriend called ME and said she was a slut and ****.



She found out that he called me, and when I confronted her she didn't really wanna talk about him and what happened between them.



So I told her that she's either going to be straight with me, or that it's over. Well, she didn't tell me **** and as I was starting to fall for her, she killed my heart.



I didn't post about any of the heartbreak on here, but Trice knows, she's the only one I could talk to.



BTW, I've been dateless ever since and life is good, I just **** and forget.

Oh I'm plenty optimistic about myself if no women are involved . . . The women I like who like me and flirt with me make me want to shut down and get away so I don't have to deal with my anger. The women I dislike are the ones I don't mind being around.

https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683785.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683785.gif https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683785.gif How did I miss this post? LMAO

well i was 17 (im 18 now...yeah anyways) i was dating this girl that was 15 (my first mistake) and whatever i really liked her and we've had like 3 years of past history together and ish but anyways we ended up going back out after that and she cheated on me a week into it with a guy that was 22 years old (7 ******* YEARS OLDER) whatever i told her the only thing she deserved for her birthday was aids, i think she cryed and i think i laughed. now im sort of in a bind with some other girl shes awesome and stuff we hooked up and had sex on new years and stuff but i dont know if i could ever date this girl and ontop of that i met some other girl the other night that i think i like and i dunno what the hell's going on at all...oh and on top of all that...i fucked a strippper. bahahaha. i dont even care its all a bunch of crap. jager solves it all.

Whew, I'm in a good mood despite the clock showig 2:15 AM so I'm gonna gove you some advice that's going to change your life.





Being a relationship failure is the best thing a <span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>MAN</span>

could EVER wish for. The only thing you have to work on is that sellf-esteem issue.



This isn't the way to tell you to try and work on your self esteem issues but I'm going to do it anyway.



Here it is, ready for it?





WHO ******* CARES?



Get the **** over it dude, don't think about yourself that way, you don't deserve that ****. Nobody does. **** the relationship problems, I myself have NEVER had a girlfriend, a steady one I couldn't even imagine. But, I'm happy as hell, sure **** hits the fan sometimes, it could be socially related (like friend dying) or sexually related (like not getting **** from ANYBODY) but you have to learn to rebound.





For example, I USED TO BE SHY AS HELL. I'd freak at the mere sight of a hot girl. I found out why though, it was because I was afraid of saying something bad or embarassing.



Let me tell you though, the only way to get over it is to not care. Hot chicks are what guys want, and when you see one, you automatically get into the "She's hotter then me so I have to be cool and I might get some."



That's bullshit though, don't think of hot chicks as scoring oppertunities. I never think about sex when I approach a girl, I just think about that moment, and it ****** works.



You just have to try it out, you can't be afraid, that's how self-esteem gets built. It's not a problem, just a roadblock. Walk up to a girl and talk to her, say something stupid on purpose, see what she says. Try it a few times with other girls and experiment, you can't lose. You'll only learn and develope confidence, and eye contact is the worst fear I used to have.



When it gets awkward, say something obvious like, "Hmm, this is getting awkward we should have just skipped this and went straight to bed." LOL



Trust me bro, I screwed up so many times it's not even funny. I flopped and got dropped by chicks that weren't even cute because I did the wrong things.



YOU CAN'T BE AFRAID



Good luck and God speed. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif

TRUE DAT Srce TRUE DAT https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683894.gif

SRCE you are right. And I always thought you wanted to ban me.

I once had a girl after me in high school. I had to let her down slowly and tell her that I wasn't a carpet licker. She was a full on lesbian.

That's my story.

https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683785.gif Thats fucken cruel but funny.



I'm 21 and have a 17yo gf (18 in 3 weeks). Its funny I cos used to always tell my friends i'd never go out with a 17yo or less, cos they are waaaaaaayyy to ditsy and immature.



We been togther for about a month, she told me she loves me after like 2 weeks...arrrgghh!! I was just like.. "thats nice". But she's cool with it. I can't say it unless I really mean it.



Being single is good if your really busy. I have to do some super time management now to squeeze her in with everything else. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...>/rolleyes.gif

If ****'s still going well with my gf in like 3-4 months, and she decides to go to University in Sudbury (6 hours away) I will be in a position where it would not harm me to follow her. It just changes the way I look for a job after I'm done my schooling, and she can persue her career as she chooses.



It's a bit more effort than looking for a job locally, but why the **** would I want to live in WELLAND for the rest of my life? https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...DIR#>/cool.png

Hrmmm I don't have a failure story, I dated one woman and fell in love with her. Married and quite happy.



Advice?



Sex is the last thing on your mind and the least important thing in a realtionship until you're married. It has NO bearing on love and how a realtionship works, at least not really. You'll adjust, get over the testosterone. "Oh but how will i now if she iz all dat in bedz?!" It's called practice and paying attention.



Don't be self centered if your serious about a realtionship with the person. There's this stupid myth that when you're married it's a 50/50 mix which is NOT the way it works. It's 100/100 you're either committed or you are not. You'll either put down almost anything you're doing for your spouse or you probably don't belong there. Scary? It's a two way street. You're not always right, neither is your spouse learn to adjust. You wont always get to do what you want to do when you want to do it, get over it neither will your spouse.



Hell if you're off doing what YOU want to do all the time why did you get married?



Don't badmouth eachother, ever. At least not seriously https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...#>/biggrin.png



Anyways there's some tips from someone who is happily married for 7 years and will be until I'm dead. Is she perfect? Nope, far from it. Does she drive me nuts? Sure. Do I love her? Yes so I'm willing to work it all out.



Beat that.

Well said Rotarydragon. I agree 100%

What? No dude. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...#>/biggrin.png

Dude. That was awesome. Inspirational.

Everything he said was on-point. Very true.



Sex and physicallities screw everything up I swear.

Some use it as an excuse to "Figure things out", when really, it only changes your motivations, feelings, and even direction due to how it went. It's not good.



As for me, I don't have any real horror stories, because I've adapted a "Courtship" idea rather than "Dating." Joshua Harris (Christian) wrote some books on his view of how things "can" work (Not Should, every love story is different) if you play your cards a certain way. Needless to say, I agree. But a lot of it involves God and His direction and I don't want to turn this into some religious debate.



But I will just agree, that when you can think with your head, and not with your....head.....things will be much Clearer.



:P

when i was 15 i was going out with my girl and we were all drunk as my house, her friend cme over and got drunk also. they wanted to kiss but i wouldnt let them. so they did it behind my back when i was in the bathroom. had i played my cards right i could had a 3some.



****.... hindsight i guess....

What's the go with a three some anyways.

i have. but thats the extent of my story that ill be displaying no a public forum.



well other then my legal problems.



kevin.

Your AIM work? LOL.



teknicsiny2g?

nope aim/aol is off (god damn i want my computer back)



but believe me the past 3 years of my lovelife are so fuked up neither me, the girls, or my friends udnerstand if we sit down and try to discuss it.



kevin.

Cmon man I want to hear about it.



I have my stories as well but nothing I want to post on a public forum. Well not the one I'm going through right now anyways.