broke up with my girlfriend
08-01-2008, 11:03 PM
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that is true! had an ex show up on the doorstep the other day...
theres this girl at the gym, who went out with one of the other guys one time, and then went nuts (what about me? dont play games with my heart etc etc)
i was thinking of asking her out, just cause i KNOW shes's crazy enough to be locked up, and thats kinda hot.
theres this girl at the gym, who went out with one of the other guys one time, and then went nuts (what about me? dont play games with my heart etc etc)
i was thinking of asking her out, just cause i KNOW shes's crazy enough to be locked up, and thats kinda hot.
08-02-2008, 01:32 AM
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Originally Posted by 94touring' post='905712' date='Aug 1 2008, 08:33 PM
And I feel sad now. She just had to keep bitching though about the same things and playing games. Bitches be crazy.
Well, at least it's done and over with. Nothing will remind you of how much self-respect you have more than breaking up with someone who doesn't live up to your standards. Just something to mull over since breakups are rarely the result of a single person's shortcomings: were some of the things she bitched about valid? I mean some things like not always putting away the laundry are just petty and silly rationalizations for bitching after she's already decided she's upset. But there's always those things we downplay and refuse to accept. I only ask because there's a good chance that if you don't do some serious introspection, the next girl may be fantastic, won't play games, but will still grow tired and bitchy for the same reason the last one did.
08-02-2008, 06:09 AM
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I'm a lot more introspective than the next guy. It doesn't change the fact that bitches be crazy. The important thing is, some bitches be crazier than others. If you're in it for a long-term relationship, look for one of the less crazy bitches. But be forewarned! A non-crazy bitch today could turn into a crazy bitch tomorrow!
Haha. I've been married going on 7 years now. Mutual respect is the key to a lasting relationship.
Haha. I've been married going on 7 years now. Mutual respect is the key to a lasting relationship.
08-02-2008, 07:57 AM
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I'm getting divorced and it was probably the best decision I ever made. Got tired of her BS and bitching. I have a g/f I've been seeing for just over 6 months now, and she does complain I'm a slob, but I just don't care. If she doesn't want me because I'm sloppy, she knows where the door is.
08-02-2008, 07:42 PM
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Well she lived in Phoenix and I live south of Tucson and so this was a huge deal, uderstandable so. However, she constantly would be on me about moving up there and quiting my job down here and why won't I come up there, and when will you get an airline job ect.. I kept telling her the jobs up there suck, I can't afford to live there on their pay, airlines suck as well, and **** I have my own planes I fly up there every week to see her. We'd have to go a few days in the middle of the week without seeing each other and I can take some heat on that but **** enough already. Then there were things like me having a friend come into town and her getting super upset and saying she wasn't going to see me that weekend cause he was here. Then she came down and said she was going to leave. I flew myself across the country last month to visit my mother and get some crap I had in boxes from my divorce, she threw a fit over this too and said she might as well mail my clothes to me. One time she locked herself in the bathroom for like an hour. So as you can see....bitches be crazy.
As luck may have it I broke up with crazy over the weekend and a few days later met a girl down here. She's my neighbor, a nurse, 26, and Phillipine and hot. We went out last night, came back here, had some wine....and well this morning my apartment had a very detailed cleaning like a maid was here. EVERYTHING organized and cleaned. Now this is a woman!
As luck may have it I broke up with crazy over the weekend and a few days later met a girl down here. She's my neighbor, a nurse, 26, and Phillipine and hot. We went out last night, came back here, had some wine....and well this morning my apartment had a very detailed cleaning like a maid was here. EVERYTHING organized and cleaned. Now this is a woman!
08-02-2008, 10:58 PM
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Ah...well my ex read this post and left me a very upsetting voicemail. Look Brandie, I met the girl AFTER we broke up. Just like you met BJ AFTER you divorced. You're not really "crazy", just doing immature things that made me not want to be with you.