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Midnightdriver 03-31-2004 09:33 PM

I just got word today that a very close friend of mine shot himself early satruday morning. from what I could get form his sister they found him monday mornigh or evening. I have known this guy and his family since 7th grade I'm 28 now I have no idea how many years, I can't think straight. We even served togather in the Navy. Now hes gone. The only person that really knew me, not the BS people think is me. I always enjoyed his company and the last meal he and I made at my place the last time we hung out..

Mazdabation 03-31-2004 09:36 PM

I am truly sorry to hear this....deepist sympathy from me.

shawn

Dramon_Killer 03-31-2004 09:37 PM

That really makes you think. I had a girl who i had a crush on in 8th grad ejust kill herself a week ago, that was kinda awkward but your situatuion is a millioni times worse. I really hope things get better. Good luck man, ur in my prayers tonight.

Travis R 03-31-2004 09:40 PM

I know how you feel. I've been there. I've had a friend commit suicide. The hardest part is struggling with what you could have done differently to prevent it. And I'm not sure what to say to help you out... other than I'm sorry.

Dysfnctnl85 03-31-2004 09:42 PM

Wow I don't even know how you deal with that, but I'm truly sorry for you losing a friend who knew you so well.

Jims5543 03-31-2004 09:47 PM


Originally Posted by Travis R' date='Mar 31 2004, 10:40 PM
I know how you feel. I've been there. I've had a friend commit suicide. The hardest part is struggling with what you could have done differently to prevent it. And I'm not sure what to say to help you out... other than I'm sorry.

You really cannot prevent it. It wasnt your choice. It was his.



I had to deal with this when I was a senior in high school a good friend hung himself in his garage. I was really close w/ his girlfriend and it tore me up to see her so hurt. She kept blaming herself.



Just dont beat yourself up, there was no way to know this would happen and there really was not anything you could do to prevent it.



My deepest sympathy to you and his family.

Eric Happy Meal 03-31-2004 09:50 PM

i cant even imagine how it must feel for you, im terribly sorry to hear that..

rfreeman27 03-31-2004 09:53 PM

Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that...



damn..

94touring 03-31-2004 10:10 PM

Very sorry to hear that. It leaves you feeling confused I know.

ColinRX7 03-31-2004 10:11 PM

Dude.. That's awful. My condolences. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub..._DIR#>/sad.png

rotarychainsaw 03-31-2004 10:12 PM

That SUCKS. I am very saddened to hear when things like that happen. In fact I was gonna make an anti-suicide post earlier today.A friend of a coworker committing suicide earlier today and it is a terrible thing even if you never met the person. I can only imagine how you feel..

MazdaMike 03-31-2004 10:29 PM

man a friend of mine just tried killing herself whats going on



sorry to hear your loss man

RussellTT94 03-31-2004 10:39 PM

my deepest condolences



a very close friend of mine passed away 3 days before christmas this year, and i can understand how hard it is to deal with things like these. keep strong, cherish life, and take nothing for granted.

boost_creep 03-31-2004 10:46 PM

Sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences.

Midnightdriver 03-31-2004 11:51 PM

THanks NP. I know I shouldn't beat myself, that it was his choice. Its always going to be there. the last time he was here he just came by and told me some of what he was thinking...he told me he came close to it. HE told me It scared the **** out of him..I should have know better. I don't know if I delayed what was going to happen.. I still should have done something more than I did. I shouldn't have let it slide what he told me.

TURBOX2 04-01-2004 01:56 AM

in my thoughts and prayers...

Travis R 04-01-2004 07:15 AM

You're right Jim. This happened about 15 years ago when I was a freshman in high school. It probably took me the rest of HS to realize it though. She was already on anti-depressants... in fact I think that's what she used. She took the whole bottle.

boxrs4sale 04-01-2004 11:24 AM

dude, im sorry..thats really terrible.. i lost one of my best friends last august.. had to be one of the most awkward/confusing moments of my life...

TyresmokinRx7 04-01-2004 12:04 PM

Sorry to here that, my condolences to you.

Gen2RXSeven 04-01-2004 06:52 PM

I'm sorry to hear that. Your in my prayers.



I cant say I know how you feel, since I've never lost anyone in that way, But I lost my best friend of 5 years to a tornado (the double wide trailer crushed her after she was pulled out of her window) and I still wonder if there was anything I could have done, I know there isn't, but I cant help but wonder.

Midnightdriver 04-01-2004 06:55 PM

I spent a good part of the day at the parents house with the family. They asked me to be one of the casket barriers.. the funeral is on saturday morning.

1gendreemer 04-01-2004 06:59 PM

My most sincerest condolences to you... I know what it's like to lose someone close, though not through circumstances like that and I'm sure it only makes it harder. I'd look at it as a reason for you to cherish your life even more though, and show those that are still here that you care.

isamu 04-01-2004 11:00 PM

That sucks man, I'm sorry. I had an ex girlfriend kill herself not so long ago, what a terrible experience. I hadn't even talked to her for a few years, but we had dated for a couple years and I had spent a lot of time with her and her family when we were together. Its just a horrible, horrible feeling when someone you were close to dies.


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