I just needed to vent... Those who know me, know i have a friend living with me right now. Hes a good friend of mine and he started crabbing with me. So we spend alot of time in small spaces together on the boats. Now i knew him before we started doing that ... so its no biggie. Anyways, he stayed at my place for about 2 weeks about 2 months ago, then we spent the next 1 1/2 months roomed together on boats and in bunk houses. Then we got home, and he moves back to montana. But leaves almost all of his **** here.. (couch, tables, etc) filling almot my entire room. So i goto california, but i had to cut it short so i could come back up and he could come back to washington to get his **** out. So i do, then she doesnt take it all.. and leaves like 6 boxes of stuff.. like big boxes. Which mind you, are still here. And then he leaves again to montana. 1 week later we get this job, and he flies out here again to talk to the captian.. i thought he would be here for about 2 days.. its been 2 weeks! And he isnt paying anything to stay here, i have to drive him everywhere he needs to go, he eats all my food without saying anything or repaying me, he used up all my tire blackener stuff, etc... And hes a friend.. but spending that much time with him and him eating all my ****. The last 2 events that make me pissed off beyond belief, was yesterday...



I told ecko, i would be at his house in 15 minutes to help him with his car. I was ready to leave. I ask my friend, "hey im leaving RIGHT NOW, do you need anywhere to go?" .. he says the gym (as he does everyday). I say "ok, well im leaving NOW" again. He says he will be ready in a couple minutes. Then he hops int eh shower, etc.. took the mother fucker over 1 1/2 hours to get ready!! He has his head shaved, so he has no hair to mess with .. and he was going to the ******* gym! how the hell does it take someone that long to get ready to goto the god damn gym?! I was soooo pissed... i waited that long and i just told him he needed to find another ride, and left. Now today i go to grab one of my 'breakfast fuel' packet drink things that i have every morning. I had 4 left yesterday morning. I reach in there... and NONE!



The mother fucker drank all of them! 4 of them!! So i told him he should fly back to montana.

I feel your pain man, I know all about being used and abused by "friends"

https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/boink.gif agreed with phins

yeah, we just went thru that. i feel your pain



mike

Atleast when i have to stay at someones place i make it a point to not use anything of theres .. and food, well i buy my own. I dont want to be mad at him, but ****.. hes very inconsiderate.

See my POSt on COMMON COURTESY!

hey dude, it is simple.....it is YOUR house, YOUR ****, YOUR everything.....tell him nicely to FUCF OFF......respect is only given when it is received.....and it is OBVIOUS that he is lacking the slightest modicum of respect for you and your things.

**** him man......change the locks and stop talking to him

arg!! I just went to get a bowl of cereal and he used the LAST of the milk! jesus christ! Who uses the last of someone elses milk? honestly!

dude...just ******* kick him out onto the street

he's not your friend if he is doing all this ****

I think the time to be nice was when he commited the first act against your territory, now it's time to be an ass. If he acts like that, don't be kind and understanding, **** him up. Tell him how you feel, and curse a lot. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif

tell his mooching ass to start paying for **** or leave.

i would if he wasnt a good friend of mine. Im trying to find the nicest way possible to tell him to leave now. He is supposed to be leaving on saturday. But i dont know if he will be alive by then.. lol

Show him the door, or give him an alternative, or he'll keep doing this until you tel him what needs to be said NOW.

I never post... you can see that... you are getting upset at nothing.... if you invited him then deal with it... if you put a time limit on the stay then you should say... you have wore out the welcome... and begone with you... to change locks cost money that you could have put into your 7 or fuel... bottom line... you vented ... and looks like we all vented

This pic sums up this whole thread.

I hate to say it - but when you had let him first use and abuse you and didn't say anything - he acted as if it was "alright" for him to keep doing it. I would really tell him straight up you do not like what he's doing, how he is treating you and so forth. If he's living with you, eating up all your food, run up your bill, etc, I'd speak up and say...



"Hey listen if you're gonna stay here and expect to use my ****, you better pay for for atleast the **** you use or you're out of here."



I wouldn't put up with that ****.

uhhh... if he was a "FRIEND" he wouldn't treat YOU LIKE ****.

He doesnt treat me like **** and hes not taking advantage of me or anything... the only thing is the lack of common courtesy.

just tell this friend of yours, ass, gas, grass...https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/dunno.gif

Yup. Some people will take what they can get. He might not even be aware that he is doing something you don't like. It's really up to you to let him know what bothers you, even though it should be "common courtesy." Could be "his momma didn't teach him right." If he's really your friend, he'll change his ways when you let him know his inconsiderate bullshit is pissing you off. Get it off your chest and tell him how you feel! If you don't, you'll never resolve this, and it will impact how you feel about this friend. Vent. At him. Now. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...1047683431.gif



Then go get a beer. Make him buy. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...>/beerchug.gif

Padlock on the Fridge. Somple Effective message https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif

Put his **** in a garage sle

I think you should sit him down and explain to him, without anger or attitude how you feel. Let him know that you value his friendship, and that you don't mind him VISITING you, but if he is looking for a place to LIVE, then he needs to make those arrangments with you, to share expenses, and so forth. Just being mad at him, only make you miserable. He doesn't even know your upset. If he is truely a person worth having as a friend, once he knows how you feel, he will modify his behavior acordingly. If he doesn't, then you haven't lost anything but a user and who need that. Then you can continue to work with him without having to feel like you kicked him out .

Smartest thing I've ever read you write. https://www.nopistons.com/forums/pub...IR#>/bigok.gif

He isn't?



You guys got a wierd way of showing people not taking advantage of you ...

well.. then he tells me that he's not taking advantage of him. I find that very funny. I also find it that he has a very HIGH anger problem... (owner of the thread)

I have ownaged this thread with my prescense.

LOL Lee, I could not remember the dude's name.