So, background is, I've been sending my ex flowers anonymously for the last 5 weeks, to let her know she's cared about while she's going through a tough time in her life. Also, I intended on telling her how I really feel about her on the final week of delivery by surprising her at the flower shop. Well, today is that day, I'll be meeting her at 1:30PM. Initially, I thought I'd tell her that I love her and that I want her back, but I'm starting to think that I should just take a friendly position - just that I care about her, and I want her to feel good about herself. Ultimately, I'd like to get her back if I can.. What should I do? Tell her that I care and that I'm here for her? Tell her that I love her and ask if we can talk it out? Tell her that she's doing the right thing and ask her to call sometime? I'm so lost, so tired and stressed.. I know this may seem trivial or pointless to some, but it's the most important thing in my life. I'm asking for advice because I can't even think straight today!

Do what your heart tells you Steve.



I think you need a good menthol ciggarette, or a cigar. You are way to stressed JUST from typing.

dude, just meet her there, tell her you love her and you care for her and that you are there for her when ever she needs you for any reason. dont say anyhting about gettign back together whne she is this stressed out. if you put it how i did but in a little nicer terms, i think shell get the point, just let her know your her friend and you'll do anything in your power to make her happy (besides sell your FD or let her drive it. )

[quote name='rowtareh' date='Apr 27 2005, 10:36 AM']you need a good menthol ciggarette,


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yuck

My heart tells me to tell her I love her and I will always be there for her, that I'm sorry for my actions that influenced the breakup and how these last few months apart have really opened my eyes, helped me find what i was about, and I would like to see if we can talk it out after she finishes her school for the semester.

perfect. jsut let her know that your sorry, that you love her and that you are there and care for her

Yes, tell her how you feel about her. Don't press her about getting back together right away, but let her know that's what you want.



And for your sake, don't take anything for granted. She could haul off and slug you for all you know!

[quote name='1988RedT2' date='Apr 27 2005, 09:50 AM']Yes, tell her how you feel about her. Don't press her about getting back together right away, but let her know that's what you want.



And for your sake, don't take anything for granted. She could haul off and slug you for all you know!


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Good call!

I kinda figure I'm either gonna get a hug or a kick in the nuts.

wow thats deep. I think you should tell her what you feel for her. And tell her if shes not okay with it your willing to be her freind and help her out with no strings attached. But dont bottle it up inside its gonna kill ya.



Good Luck kid

[quote name='1988RedT2' date='Apr 27 2005, 10:50 AM']Yes, tell her how you feel about her. Don't press her about getting back together right away, but let her know that's what you want.



And for your sake, don't take anything for granted. She could haul off and slug you for all you know!


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very true. As long is she can tell that you mean what you say, thats all that matters. All of us can tell she means alot to you. And if a groupof immature car guys can see this, i'm pretty sure she will too. Dont push getting back with her, leave it out fo the topic for now, wait till you guys have time to really talk. Good luck Steve